I have been married for nearly 3 years now Alhumdullilah and life is great with husband jee. There are 2 sisters in our social circle - i didnt know of them before marriage. Anyway, during many occasions, they have attended functions/gatherings and we too were present. On one occasion, the younger sister asks me how married life is going? And i respond “Alhumdullilah great”. She advised me all sorts on how to keep my inlaws wrapped around my finger etc etc… I was shocked @ hearing that and ignored it.
I can sense some jealousy in their eyes and in their tone of voice and i can sense that either/both of them “liked” my hubby hence their attitude. I feel all the salams/duas that we exchange are fake and just for the sake of it!
Last weekend, we attended a function and they were there and i felt so awkward around them. I said salam to them from a distance and exchange a few “how are you, what you up to” words…AND i could also see that were looking at hubbyji…WHY oh WHY?
I have been married for nearly 3 years now Alhumdullilah and life is great with husband jee. There are 2 sisters in our social circle - i didnt know of them before marriage. Anyway, during many occasions, they have attended functions/gatherings and we too were present. On one occasion, the younger sister asks me how married life is going? And i respond "Alhumdullilah great". She advised me all sorts on how to keep my inlaws wrapped around my finger etc etc... I was shocked @ hearing that and ignored it.
I can sense some jealousy in their eyes and in their tone of voice and i can sense that either/both of them "liked" my hubby hence their attitude. I feel all the salams/duas that we exchange are fake and just for the sake of it!
Last weekend, we attended a function and they were there and i felt so awkward around them. I said salam to them from a distance and exchange a few "how are you, what you up to" words....AND i could also see that were looking at hubbyji...WHY oh WHY?
Do these singletons perfer married men?
Those are the only two , or there many others after your hunk ? If these two are the only ones so chummy with him then yes they are attracted to him but not to the extent that they want to steal him from you. If there are more, then he is a charming man and you are too possessive but be careful to make sure that he is not equally chummy to those attracted to his charms.
Numb - nothing is gonna happen! Dont get too excited!
Mirch bhai, these are the only two. Ur right maybe they are just attracted to him and sometimes when i talk to them with him standing beside me, i always have a smile on MY face whilst talking to them. Im not possessive and hes not the “chummy” kind of guy! < Alhumdullilah.
SE....it's nothing to worry about. As long as you trust your husband ....these things shouldnt matter. Ask you husband to keep a distance..perhaps that will send these women a message.
SE....it's nothing to worry about. As long as you trust your husband ....these things shouldnt matter. Ask you husband to keep a distance..perhaps that will send these women a message.
AE - i know. I am not worried - i was just curious on why this happens. ALhumdullilah we trust each other. Even he keeps away from them. Actually, now that you have mentioned it, in past couple of occasions, they haven come close to us to chat and have maintained their distance!
I think married men have this special nikhaar on their roop that single girls feel attracted towards them :-p
Just kidding. I think, as someone said, they may be jealous of your lifestyle. i.e. He's a successful person that is married to a beautiful girl and has a good job and is responsible and mature (hence married).....Your husband is a handsome guy, that's always a plus. I would say don't be concerned, as long as he's faithful to you and doesn't respond to them in the same manner, you have nothing to be concerned about. In fact, feel proud that your husband is so handsome that girls are after him but at the end of the day, he's with you and not with those girls. Perhaps not a good way to put but, but hopefully you get my point.
For more consultation, talk to my wife as she goes through the same thing quite often :whistling
I don’t 
All married man are my brothers 
