Why do we do that?

Lifestyle Relationships

Barfee February 10, 2006, 10:11pm 1

I was watching a show n the couple is like lying in bed having a really good time and then all of a sudden the girl goes I wanna know more about your past so offcourse the guy tells her and then she starts a fight.

I have noticed we all do that at one point or another, I did it the other day Forced my fiance into talking about other girls and then i was upset like the whole time hehe

I was just wondering why women do that

Mehnaz February 10, 2006, 10:16pm 2

Re: Why do we do that?

Curiosity which stems from insecurity.

Chloe_Sullivan February 10, 2006, 10:20pm 3

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So T2 talked about me, get over it.

parissenoor February 10, 2006, 10:31pm 4

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men do same:D

and i agree with mehnaz, it is insecurity that leads to that…

love is based on trust, and questioning your fiance on past, is not a very nice proof of trust hence the fights…

i think past is past, with a hubby or fiance, one has to buid future and a family, think about future and all the challenges, do something constructive instead of fighting about the past

Barfee February 10, 2006, 10:46pm 5

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Haha Chaloe you wish he would talk about u

We never fight about it, the people on the show did which made me wonder why we even start to think about it.

I know more than I need to about his past :-/ but sometimes i just trap him into saying things and they end up bugging me in the end

musicmaniac February 10, 2006, 10:51pm 6

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curiosity barfee

Orpheus February 11, 2006, 12:13am 7

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:biggthumb .

Rukhsarbibi February 11, 2006, 3:48am 8

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question is why are you watching ganday ganday programs on tv Ms. Qalaqand:chusni:

nia_khan February 11, 2006, 3:55am 9

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if guy knows you had a past i can assure you he will never ever bother bringing anything up.. there ego gets hurt - i love making up stores

its okay if they had 5 relationships but its a horror if girl had a relation with a guy for even 5 mins…

dope February 11, 2006, 4:59am 10

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Because women are insecure and jealous creatures.

nia_khan February 11, 2006, 5:16am 11

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i would so want to see your face if your wife tells you about her love life of past…we will talk about insecurity at that time

belle February 11, 2006, 6:07am 12

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Because we can never enjoy what we have, we have to ruin it somehow.

Are you a googler ?

duskykajol February 11, 2006, 7:14am 13

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Women want to know for curiosity sake.

blushing_vision February 11, 2006, 11:40am 14

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why do they force themselves into feeling jealous

musicmaniac February 11, 2006, 2:44pm 15

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whtever, and wht would be ur reaction, when she tells u about her past?

danial February 11, 2006, 2:56pm 16

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you know, knowing her past can be positive, you wont have to teach her all the tricks as long as she gets checked its A-OK.

PS: think about it, swinging club, with all of her ex’s and all of yours. :k:

fghd February 11, 2006, 3:19pm 17

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why even bother?

two reasons:

to make sure u r with the right guy and try to find out WHY he broke up with his ex!?
may be b/c some girls r just nosy

musicmaniac February 11, 2006, 5:18pm 18

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easily said then done, good luck with ur fantasies :k:

Last person to answer this post wins!!!!

parissenoor February 11, 2006, 5:24pm 19

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not all men are stupids…some have brain too:Di mean those with brain do not feel like that hopefully !

Barfee February 11, 2006, 7:14pm 20

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I think this is it. We just have to knwo EVERYTHING there is to know