nadz...i am surprised at ur thinking bcz whatever u r going thru..i didnt ever give it a single thought at my time that how wud i cook and what wud i cook...and wud i have to do this this and this..putting things infront of him and all that...didnt ever think about it...but u know? things get settled themselves once u r together...at in laws i didnt have to do any cooking and after leaving pak when we stayed together then i found what the hell it is...cook and do all household chores...how come? dat was the age ...but my hubby was so helpful at that time and he still is getting more mashallah...distributing work ...washing dishes,cleaning and i cook..he manages the baby at weekends and gives me a break.. While i am busy with someother thing,he is always ready to do another thing...he never cooked anything...i know he can't and he won't but still helps me ...u really need sometime to adjust with each other and once u do things go on smoothly...i just came to know that u have to go to pak...then honey why r u worried? if its joint family...believe me u dont have to play much role in this regard...(cooking and putting things infront and household chores)...
enjoy this time...rather getting panic all over...u gonna msis this time after marriage indeed...