Maybe im too westernisedin my thinking. But i do not like the fact that its women who are expected to get up and feed the man, make him breakfast etc i mean cant the lazy so and so do it himself...wil it break his back to get up and make his own cup of tea....why oh why is it like this especially in our culture....if wife gets up and asks her husband on a daily basis to make her breakfast, this wouldnt work.
Im getting married soon and im hating the fact that il be expected to run around him, even if hes a decent guy he will still expect breakfast/lunch/dinner on table.....why cant he bl***y do it himself....
i qoute, that i am expected to run around him, even if...
meaning i dnt know im wondering if he is or isnt. and i was brought up in a western country whiles he back home. so his way of thinking is different too. although i agreed to this marriage, because yes its arranged but i do like him from what i know. im not tooo western, but being brought up her will obviously effect my thinking.