Maybe im too westernisedin my thinking. But i do not like the fact that its women who are expected to get up and feed the man, make him breakfast etc i mean cant the lazy so and so do it himself...wil it break his back to get up and make his own cup of tea....why oh why is it like this especially in our culture....if wife gets up and asks her husband on a daily basis to make her breakfast, this wouldnt work.
Im getting married soon and im hating the fact that il be expected to run around him, even if hes a decent guy he will still expect breakfast/lunch/dinner on table.....why cant he bl***y do it himself....
But the guys are expected to go out day after day for the rest of their lives to earn for us too. Yeah things have changed, women go to work, men cook, so people share their responsibilities now. It's really not that hard. Whatever works for your family is the way to go.