Re: why do some desi women get...
I suggest all you men having issues with how desi women look after marriage/child birth should get married to non-desans. It'd make life easier for all of us.
Besides most men eventually start to look hideous after marriage anyway, so why bother working out and staying in good shape. If only men keep themselves in good shape, I'm sure it'd give married women more incentive to take good care of themselves.