why do some desi women get...

wide hips once they get married?

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Same reason desi men get a beer belly without drinking a sip of beer.

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hmm ok lets be honest here....most men dont get a belly after marriage..its just stress and white hair! its not just about marraige..even before marriage girls get wide boned

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^ not to mention half bald head.

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That is so damn rude, men like you shouldn't get married or have kids. Do you know what a woman goes through when she has a baby? Her entire body changes, the bone structure, the shape, to make room for the baby. You expect a mother of 3 to have the same hip size the time she got married? At the same time, she cleans the house, cooks, looks after her husband...should she be hitting the gym for 2 hours every day as well? You guys watch too much Hollywood and Bollywood wear the women work their asses off to look as good as they do. That just isnt the case for most women!

I wish men for once could go through what we have to go through, so they wouldn't ask such dumb questions.

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furqan i tink it has something to do with the pelvic bone after giving birth to a half dozen kids :D

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^ you guys are so sexist.

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I agree with Cat-Woman. Its because of the babies YOU men impregnate women with. :rolleyes:

Oh and also, part of it is the weight gain that follows.

  1. She knows she has you so she doesn’t need to maintain her figure - its not liek you’re going anywhere.

  2. Even if she wanted to, she prob doesn’t have time for the exercise. Again, if desi men helped out around the house more, this wouldn’t be an issue.

  3. Sometimes wives get depressed after marriage and kids - whether its because they had to end their career or in-law issues or that their husband isn’t “romantic” anymore - the reasons go on forever really. So with the depression comes binging…

  4. She’s cooking all your food, she might as well eat it too.

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^ seriously. They expect you to look like Aishwarya after producing 3 of his kids.

Funnily though both of my brother-in-laws put on weight after marriage, and are looking healthier too since they are so well-fed. And bechari both my sisters after having babies go on crash diets in effort to return to their original weight. And they look damn good too. What we women have to do to please the husband and society!

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hey its a medical phenomena, nuthing sexist about it :>

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^ “after giving birth to half a dozen kids” … hmmm yeah, aur woh bechari khud ba khud 6 bachon ki ma ban gaye. :hoonh:

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Ofcourse we know the men play the major part in giving birth to the 6 or so kids. Lekin. Furqan asked why the hips widen. It has to do with genetics and pelvic bone- a medical phenomenon. Believe me I aksed an M.D. friend of mine, and that was her answer :>

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yes please :smiley:

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5abi, ok I forgive you, I realise you have the potential to mature into a sensitive, caring man.

Sheraz, your wife has been pre-destined to look like Aishwarya, so I think you're lucky. But if she puts on say 5kg, will you still love her the same way?

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Women are always soo baychari, I wonder why ... oh wait, thats also mens fault.

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^ :hehe: @ bechari.. u r soo in trouble with guppans here now :smiley:

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i will just make her run run run lol

nah i guess i can tolerate 5 kg

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The correct way to respond is to gain 10kg in retaliation. Bring on the fried chicken and the steak!

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But Maddy tum to already motey ho :rolleyes:

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hey men get fat after childbirth too. dont play the victim here you womenfolk.