not believe when they hear a guy has not messed around?
Its seriously pissing me off What is the POINT of abstaining like a acha bacha if noone’s (inculding biwi etc) frigging going to believe us?! Why do desis have this annoying attitude? Why is it so hard for some people to comprehend then not all guys drop their pants whenever they see a hot women?
Shak ko itna ghussa kyun aata hain? (did I say that right? ) Dude, what’s with all the threads today? What’s on your mind?
You’re asking “what’s the point of abstaining?” You’re not abstaining for other people…you’re doing it because it’s a requirement of your religion. So, what other people think shouldn’t really bother you, hai na?
Doesnt matter if a guy is desi or not, but if he's good looking and all, chances are he attracts some attention from the fairer sex and he must have messed around. He might have some restraint, but it takes a few strolls out in the field (if you know what I mean) to show some restraint later on.
However, average looking guys who you find glued to the internet most of the time, I wouldn't doubt them at all.
Its extremly praisworrthy and commendble you have kept your izzat intact.
Dude - Continue on the right path.- Not just because its religiously mandatory, but practically brother Im telling you once loose it, it will go on and on.
It becomes practically difficult and also as you lost your virginity there is less moral motivation to restrain.
If you dont like or have not got good management techniques then the advice is too get married.
As they say once you pop you cant stop. So dont pop before time.
Brother Shak- keep away from the dirt and keep yourself and the world clean!