Why do people want to have kids ?Why do they want to bring another life into this shrewd ,evil , cruel world where alll you see is hate , violence ,bloodshed.
Why bring your child into a world where all that’s going to happen is suffering…the child falling sick,hurt,pain ,death etc.
The child trying hard to excel in this world when he is a kid…later on growing up…either eating others or being eaten by the others?
Why the emotional turmoil on oneself too..when the child falls sick , is in pain , not successful ,unhappy, dies etc.
This question has been disturbing me for some months now.I’d appreciate honest replies.
Because we are selfish, social creatures. We want to see mini-me's. We want to mould and create a little someone. Every child is the pride of its parents.
children bring you joy. have u ever played with a baby and felt the innocence around you? it's magical. i agree the world is bad, but you know... we all want our name to continue, someone to love etc
so true, we are selfish, we need love and someone to love, hence we bring kids into the world to have someone of our own and share our love, burdens, trust with...parent child bond is unmatchable, maybe thats why..
Not too long ago I wanted a kid because..erm just because I wanted one:konfused: product of our love..someone who is a mini version of us..someone to call our own..for being a mom..for loving and taking care of your own kid..cause a newborn is beautiful..I duno all of these and many other reasons..
After being married this feeling/wish involuntarily comes to your mind..
Its not even 2months since my daughter’s birth and I already want a sibling of her:smack: even after all that pain of pregnancy and delivery..cant wait for these years to pass..how very desi of me:p
Its not about the cruel world honey..its about u and your own lil world..who doesnt want a family of his own? My family is my own lil world..and the difficulties of this world are natural.. everyone has to face them..