Why do people want to kids?

[firenze]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

@Little Princess

Why do people want to have kids ?Why do they want to bring another life into this shrewd ,evil , cruel world where alll you see is hate , violence ,bloodshed.
Why bring your child into a world where all that’s going to happen is suffering…the child falling sick,hurt,pain ,death etc.
The child trying hard to excel in this world when he is a kid…later on growing up…either eating others or being eaten by the others?

Why the emotional turmoil on oneself too..when the child falls sick , is in pain , not successful ,unhappy, dies etc.

This question has been disturbing me for some months now.I’d appreciate honest replies.

PS:Not from religious point of view please.

you need to get marry. you will get it only then.

[Muzna]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

maybe because somewhere we believe that we can better the cruel world…?

[Afshi]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

A couple of people remarked about it being the selfish thing to do. I would think it’s the opposite. It’s because when someone wants to be unselfish is when they would want to have children. When someone wants to take on the responsibility of bringing someone into this world, sacrificing their time, their money, their love for another person and making them a good human being, then I believe that is why people really want to have kids.

[STA]

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@khawateen

shaadi kerlo.. sub patha chal jayega.. getting uncorked opens up a whole new world and you get answers to plenty of questions.

:k:

[TLK]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

@Niksik

And someone please stop TLK from entering this thread.

Too late.

LP I started a similar blog recently.

[u_ahmed]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

Immortality

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

Allah swt decides who comes and who doesnt, who the hell are we to analyse, discuss and decide

frankly, you are asking the wrong question, ask Allah swt why does He keep on sending people to this world …

@Little Princess

Why do people want to have kids ?Why do they want to bring another life into this shrewd ,evil , cruel world where alll you see is hate , violence ,bloodshed.
Why bring your child into a world where all that’s going to happen is suffering…the child falling sick,hurt,pain ,death etc.
The child trying hard to excel in this world when he is a kid…later on growing up…either eating others or being eaten by the others?

Why the emotional turmoil on oneself too..when the child falls sick , is in pain , not successful ,unhappy, dies etc.

This question has been disturbing me for some months now.I’d appreciate honest replies.

PS:Not from religious point of view please.

[SaeedinPakistan]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

I admit it, I’m awesome. The world needs my offspring. It’s a service to the society.

[Sannan]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

@Little Princess

Why do people want to have kids ?Why do they want to bring another life into this shrewd ,evil , cruel world where alll you see is hate , violence ,bloodshed.
Why bring your child into a world where all that’s going to happen is suffering…the child falling sick,hurt,pain ,death etc.
The child trying hard to excel in this world when he is a kid…later on growing up…either eating others or being eaten by the others?

Why the emotional turmoil on oneself too..when the child falls sick , is in pain , not successful ,unhappy, dies etc.

This question has been disturbing me for some months now.I’d appreciate honest replies.

PS:Not from religious point of view please.

When you are going to commit Suicide :cobra:

[sadzzz]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

I really dont know what I was thinking…

to let our parents feel all giddy again seeing little versions of their own offspring?

[LP]

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@S_Punk

Because we are selfish, social creatures. We want to see mini-me’s. We want to mould and create a little someone. Every child is the pride of its parents.

@rosedreams

children bring you joy. have u ever played with a baby and felt the innocence around you? it’s magical. i agree the world is bad, but you know… we all want our name to continue, someone to love etc

@Puchi_Kuchi

so true, we are selfish, we need love and someone to love, hence we bring kids into the world to have someone of our own and share our love, burdens, trust with…parent child bond is unmatchable, maybe thats why..

@sahr

Not too long ago I wanted a kid because..erm just because I wanted one:konfused: product of our love..someone who is a mini version of us..someone to call our own..for being a mom..for loving and taking care of your own kid..cause a newborn is beautiful..I duno all of these and many other reasons..
After being married this feeling/wish involuntarily comes to your mind..
Its not even 2months since my daughter’s birth and I already want a sibling of her:smack: even after all that pain of pregnancy and delivery..cant wait for these years to pass..how very desi of me:p
Its not about the cruel world honey..its about u and your own lil world..who doesnt want a family of his own? My family is my own lil world..and the difficulties of this world are natural.. everyone has to face them..

@Mademoiselle

Because when two peoples love each other then they simply wanna have products of that love

@kakee

little minions to do their work for them ;D
if you train them well they’ll be a good representative of your family and nationality.

@Gemini_the_Great

So we can celebrate mothers day, fathers day, their birthdays..reason to party

I think at one point in life you get to the point where you want a baby n then you do whatever it takes to have one!

@sadzzz

I really dont know what I was thinking…
to let our parents feel all giddy again seeing little versions of their own offspring?

All reasons " FOR US" .Selfish isnt it ?
Then why do we keep talking about our “LOVE” for them ?
We bring them into this world for ourselves.Dont we ?

@firenze

you need to get marry. you will get it only then.

@khawateen

shaadi kerlo.. sub patha chal jayega.. getting uncorked opens up a whole new world and you get answers to plenty of questions.

And lots of other questions
Zarori tou nahi sub he khud ghalti ker ke seekhain .I wanna learn from others mistakes:blush:

@Muzna

maybe because somewhere we believe that we can better the cruel world…?

@hareem01

There’s a thing called “hope”.

I should be the last person to say this but oh well…

Hope ? Can you see the world becoming a better place anytime soon? I don’t see that happening .
Do you really believe that Muzna?

@philosophy

survival of the fittest…determined by the # of offspring one has ; )

Again for our self.

@Afshi

A couple of people remarked about it being the selfish thing to do. I would think it’s the opposite. It’s because when someone wants to be unselfish is when they would want to have children. When someone wants to take on the responsibility of bringing someone into this world, sacrificing their time, their money, their love for another person and making them a good human being, then I believe that is why people really want to have kids.

@TLK

Too late.

LP I started a similar blog recently.

Can you post the link TLK.

@u_ahmed

Immortality

wht?

@ShahreyarKhan

Allah swt decides who comes and who doesnt, who the hell are we to analyse, discuss and decide

frankly, you are asking the wrong question, ask Allah swt why does He keep on sending people to this world …

• I added in my initial post , “not from a religious point of view”.
• 35% pregnancies are planned.
  *A lot of ppl take preventive measures.

@SaeedinPakistan

I admit it, I’m awesome. The world needs my offspring. It’s a service to the society.

Im sure it does

@Sannan

When you are going to commit Suicide :cobra:

When its halaal

[Le_Pakistan]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

So wha would the world have been looked like if we all stopped being ‘selfish’?

[LP]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

That is not the qs , 'cuz we sure arent doing a favor( ‘ehsan’ )on the world by having kids.

[LP]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

No one came up with reasons that would convince me

[muqawwee123]

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[LP]

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@muqawwee123

Wrong thread Pal.

[muqawwee123]

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Exactly bhaago

[blackforest_360]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

@Afshi

A couple of people remarked about it being the selfish thing to do. I would think it’s the opposite. It’s because when someone wants to be unselfish is when they would want to have children. When someone wants to take on the responsibility of bringing someone into this world, sacrificing their time, their money, their love for another person and making them a good human being, then I believe that is why people really want to have kids.

…Or they could just adopt the one of the thousand plus orphans in the world instead bringing in a new child. For the reasons you state, it all comes down to selfishness, people do want “their own” and to spread their genes; flippin biology

[Le_Pakistan]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

@Little Princess

No one came up with reasons that would convince me

That is not the qs , 'cuz we sure arent doing a favor( ‘ehsan’ )on the world by having kids.

Because this is not a game of ‘if I convince you then will you make a kid?’

I know that was not your question. But since people are being called selfish for wanting/having kids.

What if centuries ago people decided to not be selfish anymore?

[fairytopia]

Re: Why do people want to kids?

@Little Princess

Why do people want to have kids ?Why do they want to bring another life into this shrewd ,evil , cruel world where alll you see is hate , violence ,bloodshed.
Why bring your child into a world where all that’s going to happen is suffering…the child falling sick,hurt,pain ,death etc.
The child trying hard to excel in this world when he is a kid…later on growing up…either eating others or being eaten by the others?

Why the emotional turmoil on oneself too..when the child falls sick , is in pain , not successful ,unhappy, dies etc.

This question has been disturbing me for some months now.I’d appreciate honest replies.

PS:Not from religious point of view please.

The world is filled with quite a lot of idiots and after having a baby you can achieve world domination, in the future.