Why do People Get so Defensive When they are ........

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Lets say I get married and move to USA. My nationality is converted to American. I already am going to hate being an American and on top of that my husband is constantly reminding me of it. You came here because you married me, you only got a visa coz you married me, or something like that. What kind of a home and marriage will that be? OK thank you very much you married me and made me an American, now what?