WHY do people fall in love after a forced arranged marriage?

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It happens, but I don’t know why. Tell me.
2 people marry, at least one party is forced into it, prospects for a loving relationship don’t look good, so WHY and HOW does it happen that it doesn’t take them that long to “fall in love”.

I don’t get it. I mean I believe it happens, but WHY??? and HOW???

I mean, I could understand if the reluctant party were to be bribed with lots of cheese and crackers, but what if there were no cheese n crackers in the equation?

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Re: WHY do people fall in love after a forced arranged marriage?

Hey theres no stopping love if its just meant to be...

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Yeah but how do u know it's meant to be until after it's happened? It has to happen for it to meant to be????

Seriously, the background factors do not help someone fall in love, i mean if they r reluctant.

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Re: WHY do people fall in love after a forced arranged marriage?

stolkholm syndrome

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a/there are no expectations from the pary that wasn't willing to marry.
b/everyone has good n bad in them.it depends on which is more.
c/family support makes things easy.
d/the attitude n behavior of the couple with eachother plays a huge part.

Humaima malik was married to wasim akram at 23
Humaima malik was married to wasim akram at 23
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i think falling in love after marriage has nothing to do wid its nature that whether it is forced or love marriage.

i have seen cases of infidelity even after love marriage.

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What if both parties r unwilling to marry, then who is the prisoner? Both???

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Do u mean infidelity? This is not about fidelity, it's about falling in love.

WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS, SHARE YOUR STORIES!

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Interesting...

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few of my friends are involved in such kind of things. i dont want to discuss it in details.

i was simply pointing out that falling in love after marriage can be happend in both type of marraiges.

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Re: WHY do people fall in love after a forced arranged marriage?

You simply accept the other person.

The 5 stages of grief apply here:
1- Denial
2- Anger
3- Bargaining
4- Depression
5- Acceptance

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I like the way how you put it as “grief”!!! lolz

and yes all 5 points are a solid process that leads to “acceptance”

:rotfl:

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does having sex on regular basis plays some trick here ? :konfused:

What do your eyebrows look like?
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no idea matey, was never forced into an arranged marriage.

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Why do I always read your nick as “Nabaligh” ? :hmmm:

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^:rotfl:

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^:omg:

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Damn hitchki, I came into this thread to say exactly that! :k:

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I would find it more surprising that two people get married and not love each other after max 1 year... i mean how can you live with someone and sleep on the same bed every night and not like each other...

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it happens a lot in asia a friend of mine has had terrible experience after having three boys and still his husband didnt like her its so mean and is going to divorce her coz his bhatiji was married to my firnds cousin and the bhatiji was such a vamp that she didnt want to settle and have a home she came back to her home at that stupid man gave divorce just coz her bhatiji was not happy with my frinds cousin
a marrige was based on few months her cousin
and my frined who got married for 16 years ......just got a divorce like that.