why do parents expect from kids wat they never taught?

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Re: why do parents expect from kids wat they never taught?

@rosetta

is it possible that since ur parents were not EDUCATED ENOUGH for you,you didnt want to listen to them or u never really wanted to get the message? and abt kids dancing on songs ,u urself said that even if parents dont listen to music kids still get exposed to it. Dude seriously tell me how can we stop our kids from all this exposure ?even if u ban the cartoons how are u going to prevent the couple on the street from kissing?
also do all niqais and hijaabans are pious n virgins? n where do u put corrupt moolvis in all this? they know everything abt religion n nazar ka parda n zanna,so how will u justify the way moolvis stare at even little girls and how will u blame a moolvis’ parents if he abuses a little girl ?,…n yes i personally know a girl with whom all of this happened n she was mere 5 years old ,do u blame her parents?
think abt it seriously, i think whatever u did ,u r just trying to lessen ur guilt n sense of ghunna by blaming ur parents

society society society yes this is the basic problem wat ever u said is because of** society is full of corruption ant fitnah ** so yes for complete solution we need to** change society **n that is wat u shud join us in doing
basic point in this thread is parents responsibility,one parents shud realize wat kind of society they r living in and due to which their responsibility has multiplied
the molvi n baperda ones r also grown up in this society n majority of perda is not based on concept from islam,i know girls leave home in hijab n ut it in their bags wen r in uni,n we have hafiz from good families duin haram,y because i dont think they r given concepts while duin hifz,they most prob dont know meaning of most of the surahs
we r doomed because of this very fact that we dont have and r not given concepts
it was the responsibility of that 5yr old’s parents to stay wid her
the biggest mistake parents make;leaving kids wid servants n molvis(esp girls) i know masjid molvis r usually frustrated n psychos

so nor we have secure,pure society,nor we have teachers n parents who realize wat is the situation,neither they have concepts to give.
to build shakhsiyah it is mandatory to build nafsiyah