parents call their kids disobidiant, selfish etc but i think it was their duty to teach them may it be respect,care or anything
n why do parents expect that their child especially girls won’t do anything wrong..while they let them go out wid friends,have cellfones,internet study in co,work in office and still trust!! no trust is wat they dont have right to do in such situation WEN u dont even warn y “not”… i know sum kids refrain from sum things wich they feel wud be breach of trust
but parents shud know if they want to expect gud from their children in the above mentioned situation… they must built gunnah,sawab, haram etc sence coz frear of ALLAH can strenghtn them n stop from commiting harram..
otherwise dont expect from ur 15 year old son/daughter to be virgin while unmarried and grown up watching love stories and songs…
m sure every 13 year starts dreaming of his prince charming and finds 1 by 16 and is most prob not virgn wen 20!!
may b they will blame u 1 day n question u on the day of qiyamah!
at least tell them once u r baligh u will b responsible for ur amaal n its ur duty to learn ahkaam
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n why do parents expect that their child especially girls won't do anything wrong..while they let them go out wid friends,have cellfones,internet study in co,work in office and still trust!! no trust is wat they dont have right to do in such situation WEN u dont even warn y "not"... i
So you don't think parents should let their daughters have friends, use cell phones, internet study or work....right? because htey may lose their virginity one day?
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So you don't think parents should let their daughters have friends, use cell phones, internet study or work....right? because htey may lose their virginity one day?
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Subhanallah, you have opened my eyes. Thanks yaar, when I have a daughter I am going to send her to preschool in niqaab and make sure she doesn't know what a penis is until she gets married!
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parents call their kids disobidiant, selfish etc but i think it was their duty to teach them may it be respect,care or anything
n why do parents expect that their child especially girls won't do anything wrong..while they let them go out wid friends,have cellfones,internet study in co,work in office and still trust!! no trust is wat they dont have right to do in such situation WEN u dont even warn y "not"... i know sum kids refrain from sum things wich they feel wud be breach of trust
but parents shud know if they want to expect gud from their children in the above mentioned situation... they must built gunnah,sawab, haram etc sence coz frear of ALLAH can strenghtn them n stop from commiting harram..
otherwise dont expect from ur 15 year old son/daughter to be virgin while unmarried and grown up watching love stories and songs...
m sure every 13 year starts dreaming of his prince charming and finds 1 by 16 and is most prob not virgn wen 20!! :(
may b they will blame u 1 day n question u on the day of qiyamah!
at least tell them once u r baligh u will b responsible for ur amaal n its ur duty to learn ahkaam
Yep the women should stay in the last room of the home and should never come out. Nobody should ever see their shadow or hear their voice , it is against the Baudoin Islam and should be implemented once the Iqamat ud deen is complete and Muslim Khalifa rules the world. :@:
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lol your weird.
Dont always blame the parents. society and friends and peer pressure and the WORLD have alot to do with it too. OUR parents were good trustworthy kids who did whatever their parents expected of them, unfortunatley they think we are the same. ITS US thats the problem, NOT THEM.
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lol your weird.
Dont always blame the parents. society and friends and peer pressure and the WORLD have alot to do with it too. OUR parents were good trustworthy kids who did whatever their parents expected of them, unfortunatley they think we are the same. ITS US thats the problem, NOT THEM.
but i being young wud get attracted by all this i see in society n i will have an affair too, y parents want me to live in such a society , without giving me strong aqeeda n concepts and remain pious and 100% pure??
wasnt it their duty to tell me dont have an affair its gunnah, n ensure i can tell them anything ?
isnt it their fault ,that they dont check where i go wid friends n wat we do on pc in locked rooms?
isnt it their duty too protect from corrupt society n tell about shr in this world?
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Nice post...thanks for sharing umaah...People ,I think he/she is right if you read her/his post seriOusly.
thanks ..it is serious n i wrote it because i want parents to think about it,as i think my parents dint taught wat they expect but i still thank them because i'v learned from them does n donts in bringing up kids...
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but i being young wud get attracted by all this i see in society n i will have an affair too, y parents want me to live in such a society , without giving me strong aqeeda n concepts and remain pious and 100% pure??
wasnt it their duty to tell me dont have an affair its gunnah, n ensure i can tell them anything ?
isnt it their fault ,that they dont check where i go wid friends n wat we do on pc in locked rooms?
isnt it their duty too protect from corrupt society n tell about shr in this world?
Why are you going to blame your parents for your wrongdoings and issues?
You're clearly not a child, you have access to internet, you can also use it to find the right information and learn what's right or wrong if your parents didn't.
The end destination is the same, whether you get your information from parents or Internet
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Subhanallah, you have opened my eyes. Thanks yaar, when I have a daughter I am going to send her to preschool in niqaab and make sure she doesn't know what a penis is until she gets married!
according to my knowleg hijab is fard once girl is baligh... n yes i agree wid ur second precaution
i hate parents who like their daughters dancing on "sheela ki jawani" or "kiss me kiss me" dont they know it will effect there thinkin ,isnt the wording rubish enough ??
n my 4 year old nephew has this thing" girl,boy and kiss" in his brain which he learnt from cartoons!!
parents ignore such things and this is zulm with innocent ones,first u ruin there thinkin n later want them to remain pious until "MBA" !
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Why are you going to blame your parents for your wrongdoings and issues?
You're clearly not a child, you have access to internet, you can also use it to find the right information and learn what's right or wrong if your parents didn't.
The end destination is the same, whether you get your information from parents or Internet
but every teenager is not that sensible! to think "o my parents dint taught me gunah sawab,lets learn by ourselves" they wud hardly realize wat they duin is wrong,as these r common among their friends n society!
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Dude I don't know what country you live in but there is not a single practicing Muslim family that does not teach their child that premarital sex is wrong.
Teens do it because they want to, not becuase they "don't know" that it's wrong
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yeh maa baap ki zimedaari hai ke woh apni aulaad ko achay-bure ki tameez sikhayein. agar woh nahi sikhatey aur aulaad ghalat raaste pe chali jaati hai tou yakeenan maa baap ki ghalti hogi magar saath saath aulaad ki bhi kyon her insaan zindagi main ek aise muqaam pe pohanch jaata hai jahan usay khud ba khud achay-bure ka shaoor ajata hai baghair kisi ke sikhaye ke kya acha hai aur kya bura hai.
