why do parents expect from kids wat they never taught?

[Jafri]

Re: why do parents expect from kids wat they never taught?

@1_ummah

its not saying of hazrat ali,its also hadith…n i never said to grab ur child’s neck or keep scolding them…is that the only way to protect n do tarbiyaah???

I’m pretty sure the saying of how to treat your offspring for the 7 year periods is a hadith from Hazrat Ali (as), at least Shias believe so.

Tarbiyyat of your child is important, and not just for the well being of the kid, for the parents as well. If you keep your child under a rock, the kids more attracted to rebel, and the parents will not be viewed as ideal parents. Let them breathe. Your thinking is twisted. You don’t even belong in 11 hijri, forget 1432.

If you want tarbiyyat, actually have dinner at the table with the whole family discuss with your kids, talk about their days, what they’re doing, going to do etc. Tell them right from wrong at a young age, make sure they hang out with the right kids. Tarbiyyat-e-aulaad is not putting a physical and MENTAL niqaab on your baligh daughter, and making your son a hafiz at 13.