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ME OW!!!
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Turkey has high rate of domestic violence…well said…
RIGHTS - Panic button to prevent abuses in Turkey
from central asian nations…
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heheh you’re so funny 
But you’re right!
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Even in the Holy Qur’an Allah SWT says “Say good/kind things/words to them” when talking to men about their relationship to their respective wife … It’s more like an order for men who believe
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Its basically the same thing
honour killing is due to illegal relationships only a few are due to domestic reasons
I think my Pakistani husband is amazing and the best person for me That being said I've only been married to him and no other national and I'm far from perfect ..
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In Pakistani gatherings discussions about wives is generally the last topic they would ever discuss as you might agree that with all the qualities the OP mentioned Pakistani Men are the most protective about their wives and family in general as well. Its so easy to generalize for women specially pakistani women here on Gupshup who have a personal agenda against PAKISTANI MEN. Ever hear PAKISTANI MEN complaining about their PAKISTANI WIVES who compare themselves to Goris yet are the most dependant women who have no sense of boundary, are very clingy and have major egos and according to them their in laws are against them and out to hurt them.
In short if Pakistani Men are horrible husbands Pakistani Women are no better !!!
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^ pshh pakistani women are perfect! 
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This is clearly a rant thread where things are being said to instigate more things to be said.
No one (man or woman) and no race is perfect you just gotta live in harmony with each other.
To the OP I would suggest starting a blog of some sort to have your rants in, rather then generalize things and spew them in the forums.
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& I have discussed it with my hubby and he said, No, Goris have more ego than a Paki woman 
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... A few days ago my brother and his family went to a party at his family friend's house. There were people of several (Muslim) nationalities there and my brother told me when men started discussing their wives, all the Pakistani men started criticizing their wives whereas the Iranians and Turks and even Arabs and Afghans (not pashtuns) were praising their wives...
Even though a book can be written on Pakistani wives' shortcomings but I am not gonna bad-mouth Pakistani women like the original poster did about Pakistani men.
All I can say is that those Pakistani men would be praising their wives, had they been married to those Iranian or Turk or Arab or Afghan ladies. :)
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BRAVO !!!
@kaun](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/kaun.html)
He was a sick man to do that to you. What comes around goes around, his gorri will do exactly that to him one day. Just be patient, it will happen. Not all pakistani men are complete and utter morons. There are some who would do anything for their wives, and are good men. Unfortunately good natured men are rare, but they do exist.
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LOL… I love the way the bashing of Pakistani men always ends with such lines…
Because only the father, the brothers, the husband, the sons of every woman are the best, honorable, righteous, courageous, upright, dutiful, mannered, cultured, trustworthy, capable, caring, sophisticated, hardworking, faithful, loving, responsible, noble, valiant, *intelligent *and good men.
Only they are the epitome of Pakistani men folk and since they belong to only one/two houses that each and every Pakistani woman is related to… hence are rare… … but hey they do exist and that’s a good thing.
and the rest of the Pakistani men who are not fathers, brothers, husbands and sons of any woman are… simply bad, very bad, very very bad so make sure everyone knows that they are bad. 
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^ hehe, true.
He was a sick man to do that to you. What comes around goes around, his gorri will do exactly that to him one day. Just be patient, it will happen.** Not all pakistani men** are complete and utter morons. There are some who would do anything for their wives, and are good men. Unfortunately good natured men are rare, but they do exist.
You started off good, but then you basically made the same generalization.
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Honestly, I kinda agree with OP. =/ I wouldn't say Pakistani husbands - South Asian husbands in general are kind of a depressing lot lol. Culture dominates the region...and culture defines that a South Asian woman must fall to her husbands feet the minute he walks thru the door. My husband is awesome mA, but when he came to the US he had loads of issues...why did I want to work, why do women expect husbands to help household-wise etc...and he was raised in Lahore, went to MCJ, LUMS...modern, urban guy...yet he still thought that way. He's changed alot since he's been working/going to school here + when I got pregnant...but yeah...it's a cultural thing.
Before I get bashed by everyone - the majority of the men posting on this website are from a different demographic...ie) educated, youngish, urban etc. Majority of Pakistan isn't very educated....their idea of religion is the local maulvi saab proclaiming that women must cook and clean otherwise it's a disgrace to society. It isn't their fault...it's just lack of education.
Culture > Religion/education....in Pakistan. And I think that's why South Asian/Pakistani husbands get a bad rep.
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Honestly, I kinda agree with OP. =/ I wouldn't say Pakistani husbands - South Asian husbands in general are kind of a depressing lot lol. Culture dominates the region...and culture defines that a South Asian woman must fall to her husbands feet the minute he walks thru the door. My husband is awesome mA, but when he came to the US he had loads of issues...why did I want to work, why do women expect husbands to help household-wise etc...and he was raised in Lahore, went to MCJ, LUMS...modern, urban guy...yet he still thought that way. He's changed alot since he's been working/going to school here + when I got pregnant...but yeah...it's a cultural thing.
Before I get bashed by everyone - the majority of the men posting on this website are from a different demographic...ie) educated, youngish, urban etc. Majority of Pakistan isn't very educated....their idea of religion is the local maulvi saab proclaiming that women must cook and clean otherwise it's a disgrace to society. It isn't their fault...it's just lack of education.
Culture > Religion/education....in Pakistan. And I think that's why South Asian/Pakistani husbands get a bad rep.
What you are adressing has nothing to do with being bad or worst.
Being conservative about certain matters and having traditional views does not make a man (or woman) bad. It might clash with your thoughts and upbringing, but it says nothing about their qualities as husbands.
What you are adressing has nothing to do with being bad or worst.
Being conservative about certain matters and having traditional views does not make a man (or woman) bad. It might clash with your thoughts and upbringing, but it says nothing about their qualities as husbands.
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Yeah, i’m pretty sure i mentioned that at the end…culturally Pakistani/South Asian men like wives playing the traditional role. Which is why, in current times, they get a bad rep.
Having traditional views is something my husband does have - but he also considers me human, he takes care of me beyond anything i could imagine. When men/husbands don’t consider a woman’s feelings/opinions worth anything, they’re then labeled ‘bad’. I know you’re gonna defend this like hell…but the Pakistani men i’m talking about (majority uneducated etc) really have no opinion of their wives past cooking/taking care of kids. I’ve seen and heard of so many households where the woman is just blah. Literally. Her status as a woman/wife is ‘blah’.
Again, education and exposure mould people. South Asian men have don’t have much of either..o..