Re: Why do Pakistani guys act Gangsta?
In many cases, I think it all boils down to lack of support at home. I think the whole gangsta and goth thing appeals to kids who are outcast, loney, not accepted for whatever reason. And this is mainly a western thing...where parents are too caught up in their own careers and lives, too busy to be there for their kids. If I saw my kids start to lean toward the wrong path, I'd be all over it like white on rice...I'm not one to say "oh how nice, my child is expressing his individuality." Bull!! They're hurting and need help when these things appeal to them!
Please dont take this as a bashing of having a two-income family. There ARE many, many households where mom and dad both have successful careers and wonderful children. But it doesnt apply to all...and its those who have these issues with their kids IMHO. I had a great career...but I know myself...I am not one of those special people who can do both motherhood and career, both would suffer. Some can do both and do them very well. It all boils down to knowing what you can handle well and recognizing when there may be an issue developing with your kids.