==Why Do NICE GUYS finish Last??

[Ask99]

@sadzzz

i still reckon its immaturity. Its ones way of feeling better about themselves. to know that you have been able to convert someone per se.. i believe its something girls go through.. and guys know it too. They can reel a “good” girl in.. get her to listen to their problems blah blah blah.. but nothing really comes out of it..

at the end of the day (most girls) want someone nice to look after them. Be sensitive to their needs. Cuddle them and all the rest.. the other thing, i think this “bad boy persona” is over rated… most bad boys are nice guys neways.

I know its over rated but more and more girls I see are attracted to such sort of men..or maybe I can say..the Tough Guy image more then the Nice Guy charm. Its just so unfair though, because after the girls get treated poorly by the Tough dudes out there…they look for the nicer guy…but I feel sorry for the nicer guys.

@initiator

Ask99, It’s about acting manly. It does not mean that you have to show aggression or be possessive, but just that you should hold your ground. Manlihood demands responsibility, argumentative power, articulation and little indifference at times. Let women be in charge of the finer things in life, and give them the kindness and respect they deserve. However, women knowingly or unknowingly seek protection, and thus look for men who are gentle yet a bit strongheaded.

Do you think the Nice Guys are mostly the kind that woman can walk all over. I think they are just a bit mild mannered…don’t fret over the small stuff but at the bigger things hold their ground.
hey am I describing the bad boy or the nice guy:konfused: