Re: Why do my parents not understand? (marriage)
these classifications are just so silly.
I do think you’re being fussy, and so are your parents (if they are rejecting boys on the basis of them being from UK).
I dont think either one of you is better (or more right) than the other.
There are exceptionally decent guys from back home who come overseas to study and make a living or a life for themselves. And some of these guys are exceptional husbands, dads, friends and what not. They know what struggle means and they know the meaning of life.
You cant just sod them off just because they happened to be students or are from backhome. Infact, some of them make the bestest of husbands.
The whole immigration talk and what not, is rather amusing too.
Bottom line, its your life, but dont refuse someone on the basis of them being a student from Pakistan. That is childish.
Talk to them, if you click.. good on you. But dont go in with the notion of “I am not going to marry him”.
Yes u r right, she should just decide case by case on merit, when ever u fix 1 thing in mind may be ur parents will not like that, meeting someone is not mean that u will marry him, just have a meeting & chit chat…