Re: Why do most ABCD/BBCD/CBCD girls have mom/dad issues?
Before I begin, let me just say that I don’t have any thing personal against having GF/BF. Its everyones personal matter and I am not here to judge anyone. The point I was trying to make was that ability to talk about any unethical (as per cultural norms), or illegal (as per legal code) or unIslamic (as per Islamic law) matter with your parents does not defines whether you have a good relationship with your parents or not.
I dont claim Pakistanis have better relationships with their parents than you or anyone else for that matter. For all I know, maybe I have the worst relationship with my parents amongst all people here. What however I do know is that despite, all problems, I and people I know still love our parents. I personally had a lot of arguments with my dad a couple of years back. I even left the house once. I still have disagreements with my dad but does this means I dont love him? Not at all. Infact, if anyone even dares talk disrespectfully to my dad, Ill break his bones. Will I ever leave my dad or seek ‘revenge’? Will I ever not talk to him in future? NEVER. I will always love him unconditionally and will always stand besides him for the rest of his life.