Re: why do men marry at all?
i appreciate your positive out look of the matter. but the thing is parents instead of confronting their son for his behaviour , expect the bahu to take the weidht of all relationships on her shoulder. the son is simply interested in property...how could anyone pull along without complain when there is no appreciation from any corner.... its not easy to be goody two shoes(aka star plus ki tulsi) all the time. bahu has some rights too, who will feel for her?????
The bahu may actually be the pillar of strength for this family. She can take charge and resolve issues like she would for her family. Yes, sometimes we feel it is not our responsibility and we have more rights, etc., but think about it, if we can do more than what is expected of us, that is significant, and she could win great respect in the heart of her husband.
One could argue about rights and responsibilities forever. This is just one perspective.