Re: why do men marry at all?
ok! this guy never ever takes care of his parents, never says AOA or even hudahafiz to his parents. always stays away from home and related matters. all he is interested is that dad shud hand him over his share of property. now for that reason he expects his wife to be at her best behaviour all the time. where as parents think that they have every right to scold their bahu instead of confronting their son for this behaviour. everything the bahu says or does has to be wrong or unacceptable. i don't know what happened between them but poor wife has to bear the brunt. u keep my parents happy so they transfer me the property and what will become of the wife then? jo aapnay maa baap ka sagga nahin woh biwi say kasay sincere ho ga??????
1) if the guy is not fulfilling his obligations, does it mean his wife should not either?
2) if he was the best son and the inlaws still scolded the bahu then what?
so lets look at all moving parts here independently..whether or not he does what is right, the wife has to do what is right.
regardless of his relationship with his parents, if they are not acting properly, then she needs to take a stand and sort it so their communications are right.
right now it seems like one of those situations, that the compalinign wife has absolved herself of any and all personal responsibility in this matter.
is she going to do anything to fix things.
heck, I would expect a mature and sensible girl in this situation to actually try and not only have good terms with her inlaws, but try to help mend the relationship that the son has with his parents.
But that may be too much to ask.