Why do men freak out when women say "lets discuss it"?

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: Why do men freak out when women say “lets discuss it”?

so instead of being strong, understanding your wife and reconciling with her you want to avoid it all? just because she cries means she exploits? am i understanding you correctly?

@psyah

You really are “pain” english … LOL

Men have a weakness in their how their wealth is spent and in their love for their wives and children … these weaknesses can be exploited if a woman “cries” to get her way or if she “spends” to get you back … hence the remarks by STA …

I want to be able to maintain my responsibilities as a husband without letting my weaknesses cloud my judgement …