Why do men freak out when women say "lets discuss it"?

Re: Why do men freak out when women say “lets discuss it”?

You really are “pain” english … LOL

Men have a weakness in how their wealth is spent and in their love for their wives and children … these weaknesses can be exploited if a woman “cries” to get her way or if she “spends” to get you back … hence the remarks by STA …

I want to be able to maintain my responsibilities as a husband without letting my weaknesses cloud my judgement …