Re: Why Do men do this??????
It's about respect, X2. These same families will raise us girls here and we go through massive saccrifices in our education and upbringing. We girls will not date. We girls will stay clean. We girls will work hard giving one exam after another. To see the same guys who will want to start up a "relationship" with us under the guise of marriage, and then they drop us and go home to marry a "more shareef" girl from Pakistan.
Of course everyone has their choice, but don't tell me you can't find a girl with the same set of values you look for in Pakistan right here in your own backyward.
Families have made it a game. Yeah, go ahead beta, go flirt all you want with girls here, but we wont marry you to them.
A great case in point: Bhenjee's thread regarding the girl her brother is dating. Plenty of such threads that show the hypocritical nature of Pakistani people.