Re: Why Do men do this??????
Tammy, my dad came in the 70's when the population of women here was much less, and there weren't many girls in higher education at that time. So being raised in Pakistan and having spent most of his life in Pakistan, he bought a wife back from there.
I'm talking about boys who were RAISED HERE, BORN HERE. Going back and seeking Pakistani born girls. It's retarded. Why ever would you do that when there are perfectly INCREDIBLE women here. I have a line of them that I know. Go look online on rishta threads and on rishta websites, and you'll find an endless row of "35 year old Anesthesiologist woman, looking for a college educated man". Do you know how many guys I've gotten messages from on these online networking sites - who are 40 year olds? They don't want to talk to the 30 year olds. They don't want to talk to girls with a good education and a successful career - they're frankly INTIMIDATED by it.
Is it fair to these girls? No. Does it encourage our society to get more educated and do better and more productive things with themselves? No.
Go to f'ing Coney Island, or Devon Street or some of these Pakistani ghettos in the US. They refuse to get with the times.
And it's because most of the ammas these days are un-pars and ignorant jaahil girls picked up from Pakistan who bring over their backwards ideas here and sprinkle our communities with our ideas.
I'll tell you what. A 35 year old Anesthesiologist will do a crapload better job raising more sensible kids than the moronic 21 year old from Karachi barely matric pass who figured she would nab an American guy so she can have her "mansion" in the suburbs of new york.