Why Do men do this??????

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@Mamaof3

I agree. Many desi guys, whether raised in Pak or in the west want a good (read: compliant) girl to marry. They are fearful of independent and self-sufficient women.

Western women are much more self-sufficient than their desi counterparts (this is not to be taken as an insult, I just happen to think that its very true). **Because even if a gal is raised in the west in a very closed family, there arent the maids, the services etc that gals in Pak are accostomed to, they have to do much more for themselves. **They are also encouraged by the publc school system to become independent thinkers, to want and to strive for a life that they want for themselves. Personal thinking as opposed to collective or extended family thinking. Some guys are very fearful of women who know wht they want and how to get it.

I think the logic of desi girls abroad is threefold:

1. That pakistanis girls are rusbbish
2. That desi girls born/raised abroad are the best thing under the sun
3. That desi guys abroad who marry pakistani girls from back home are stupid because they are leaving the coolest thing under the sun to marry a much “inferior” girl from pakistan

As an afterthought, don’t you think if marrying a girl from back home was SUCH a huge mistake then after decades of this practice, we would have learned otherwise ?