i could never understand ppl complaining that they cant find someone. In the same family in the same city a few cousins find good matches and get married while other cousin complains that no good matches are around. Same for friends, in a group of friends some find good matches and others cant seem to do that. same socioeconomic backgrounds, similar social circles, same city.
I am not sure what it is whether it is something to do with the person, or unrealistic demands. why is that in you folks view?
and humans are potatoes ... everybody should find a partner in the same sack!
if somebody cannot, why is it an issue? and perhaps he/she doesnt have unrealistic or whatever demands, its just about finding a click ... and you cant enforce a click! sometimes you find a partner in the most odd setting ... and that is perfectly natural.
born in one pond .. you may or may not have a feeling with it ....