I am a british gal married to a guy from back home and its soo hard! our thinking and outlook is so different. It was especially hard in the first few years but getting easier now I think. The point I’m trying to make is that although western girls marry guys from Pak too its much harder then when western guys marry girls from back home…my hubby agrees with me (at least we agree on something!).
I think families don’t have any shauk to get their damads from Pakistan. If the guys here are refusing to marry American born women then the American born women have no choice but to also look to Pakistan for rishtas.