i agree … unfortunately that’s not wat i’m reading in this thread. somehow in order to make it equal in some universe, very “pretty” words are being used.
I’ve seen equally bad people on both sides of the world!and equally good ones too.
and personally i am also not really for boys abroad marrying girls from back home in the situation that is being discussed, unless both of them somehow fall in love, and just really wanted to be with each other. but i guess that is RARE.