it usually takes some sane men to calm things down in heavily charged discussions here (and with that I have opened a pandoras box and painted a bullseye for jootiyan on my butt or the ladies can prove me wrong and show they have a sense of humour and let me live)
I am sad to say that I know a few girls who said no to some very good guys because of stereotypes, where they were born, what their ethnicity was, etc..and one of them later even inquired about a guy, but by that time he was happily married. I am sure the opposite is also trye for guys saying no to great girls due to idiotic stereotypes and not evaluating someone for who they are. On the other hand, ppl who will let stereotypes and all dictate their decisions so much, maybe one does not want to be hooked up to them anyways.