Re: Why Do men do this??????
how does this explain girls in Pakistan who are single?
if guys abroad are getting girls in Pakistan, then there should be a shortage of girls and we would not see girls not getting rishtas, but we see that. no shortage of pakistani men in Pakistan.
But I am afraid the same issues which create issues for girls and guys in US are what create issues there. These include the families not being very social and connected and thus have a hard time finding matches and have to rely on matchmakers and what nots. Both sides look at who brings what to the table, and weakness in one area can be 'made up' by strength in another, a physically unattractive guy can be considered a catch if he is rolling in the dineros, a not too smart girl can land some great guy because she is from a connected family etc. The issue is when either a weakness is not made up by a strength, or the strength is not valued in the social group. e.g. a below avg looking girl who has done an msc in some subject which does not bring in much, or some avg looking guy who is not rich or not from a connected family.
I hate to put this out here like it is but that is really how it is.