Re: Why Do men do this??????
PCG: as a mother of 2 little girls and bringing them up here in the US, I am honestly finding this very disturbing :(
what about your parents input? have they a big enough network to socialise? not just talking about 5 -10 local desi families who u seen on occassion but a broader network. becuase if you want to marry within the desi set-up, your family, not YOU, needs to be out there. that is true for here as well as back in Pakistan. i think that is one of the main reasons why families here find it easier to find rishtas back home, becuase of the vast social framework, its much easier to pinpoint like-minded families. its all about connections in the end, reputation within the communtiy, it all counts, can't blame it on just one factor.