why do husbands verbally abuse thr wives?

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Re: why do husbands verbally abuse thr wives?

@diamond321

Husbands who do that are bad tameez and like Gaia said their mom didn’t teach them to respect women.

I would not agree with the fact that they saw their dads treating their moms same way. Rules are always different for own mom and sisters because they are special , asmaan sey utri hui and a gift to mankind. But all other women are bad , chalaak and does not deserve respect esp wife aur us kay ghar walay. Mothers teach their sons to keep wife in her auqaat nahi to usko maa baap kay gher wapas bhej do.

thank GOD someone said something a bit sensible here. i 100 percent agree sometimes its nt just hubs learnin from his father treating his mom in a bad way. def rules are always different when it comes to their wives. most of the guys i know they are mommy’s boy and their mom controlled their fathers and they still turn out to b bad husbands. maybe they are scared their wife wud turn out to b like their moms. also i agree with diamond mothers teach their sons to keep in aukaat… and my own MIL once said to my hubby biwi ki suno gay toh yehi hoga.. idunno she said it to him or to his brother (he got married newly that time) but wotever the msg was clear. keep her at a distance. my own husband has said so many times on my face and infront of his mom.. ke in biwion ko samjhana hoga aisa nahi chalega un biwion ko level mein rakhna hoga and blah blah(he said that talkin abt the newly wedded devrani of mine but indirectly it was for me too). and blah blah. they show infront of their moms that we are inferior to their moms and the mother in the end feels happy that biwi ki itni aukaat nahi ke oski suni jati ho.