Chanda if anyone's upbringing was not right, it was yours, for being so screwed up in the head. But we can't blame you , I'm sure it was your parents, more so your mother since she was a perfect lady who stayed home, who did that to you.
Sara bibi, I'll also give you some sincere advice: Don't reveal too much on these forums; people have good memories and can, eventually, use the info against you.
I dont know why you girls get so upset...You insult guys that go back for being spineless and not being able to deal with a strong independent woman so why so bitter...
Its not like every pakistani goes back home is it...obviously those that do do it cos its the safe option and you dont fit their criteria...they are entitled to want a girl who will guaranteed be fit cos shes handpicked, do the dishes, cook, clean, do as shes told, ask to please not be pleased, easy to mould, wont answer back, raise the kids, teach the freakier side of life and easy to please...
If thats what a guy wants...then why do you have issues...obviously you arent that...so find someone who is fond of a more independent woman...
Geez you act as if every man chooses to go abroad...
Sara
They'll do what you ask them to...none of this i dont give **** nonsense...you just show them how if they havent before...you give them norms and values as the husband...they dont have an pre concieved norms and values...
Amani06
Pretty much yeah...Its just unconfident insecure boys...
Most guys who i know that go back home are guys who lack the confidence, self esteem and social skills to build a relationship with a girl...
Especially with boys that supposedly become good after having their fun...its due to the fact that they got let down a bit...their girlfriend controlled them...he got taken advantage of...she cheated...she was verbal with him...she had no time for him...she had a career...she wasnt accepting his constant 1minutes...
Its the fact that they were incapable of working it with girls in the west that they feel to go back home...its these same guys that will talk about how much they hate western girls...and its hate because they couldnt work it...
Back home they assume the girl has no expectations and they wont have the same problems...
If a boy has a girl here and makes it work here then unless hes some pussy that does what his parents tell him he'll have no desire to go back home...
they want to find someone here cause they think she'll be a virgin and never been touched...lol..goodluck with that ..what they don't know is that pakistan is becoming more and more liberal,infact the pakistani families living in the u.s are more mullah types than pakistani families here.
Pakistani girls are the best girls in the world, Un ka baat kerne ka tariqa with their husbands, in manners, uthna bathna with relatives, guest excellent and sub se bher ker loyality towards their husbands. Whatever Whatever husband will demand they will do their best for their husbands just to make them happy. They accept whatever their husbands wants.
So you guys should always get marry with pakistani girls.
^LOL, actually any good wife would do exactly what you said, except for the "they accept whatever their husband wants or demands" Pakistani girls are not pushovers.