Re: Why Do Guys Always Go To Pak To Get Married?
You overlook that growing up in the west, your ties to Paistan are weakened - your relationships with people there are weakened.
If you marry a girl from there… your ties are strengthened. I have a Paistani friend who was born and raised in the UK. He’d only go to Pakistan occasionally, on holidays. But his relationship with his family there was weak; you can’t have a strong relationship with people you’ve only ever met for a few weeks or months every couple of years - he could feel it, he felt less and less connected to his family there and to the country.
One trip to Pakistan, he found a girl he wanted to marry, and did. After that, he found that by marrying into a family from Pakistan, his personal connection to Pakistan was strengthened. He found himself going more often, his identity as Pakistani strengthened, etc.
If I still lived in England… my circumstances there meant that I would have preferred a wife from Pakistan for this reason. As things stand however… my own circumstances here in Canada probably means it wouldn’t be so wise.