why do girls need constant validation?

[geminifromkhi]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

No no I never said women should be like men..just asking why they feel the need for validation..and was contrasting that with men who dont feel the need when they themselves are rarely getting complimented..I hope women never become like men lol

Men dont feel the need? Dude men are now doing almost everything that girls do, even more!

[geminifromkhi]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

To protect oneself from getting hurt..he’s basically saying don’t get too attached or invested in a woman, can break your heart

You need to watch more srk movies.

Suno, jiyo, hanso muskarao kya pata kal ho na ho!

[pak2015]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@BigdaNawab

WTH. now suffer the wrath of follow up comments.alone.

Hahah I’ve been facing the wrath of these girls alone since I’ve joined..

[Aaze]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

Also for the ladiea who are married..instead of always fishing out compliments..spontaneously compliment your husband about a physical feature that you like about them especially when they’re not dressed up or trying..just say it spontaneously..because although most men don’t go out of there way to seek out compliments it does mean a lot to them when their wife does spontaneously compliment them!

I think both spouses need to be better at giving compliments to each other. I don’t think men are better at doing it than women or vice versa.

You can totally make someone’s day by just dropping a random compliment, so why not?

[pak2015]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@geminifromkhi

You need to watch more srk movies.

Suno, jiyo, hanso muskarao kya pata kal ho na ho!

Oh trust me I’m loving single life..it has crossed my mind several times just being a bachelor and enjoying life..girls come and go..and I don’t know if can put up with their BS..I sometimes see no benefit for me to marry a woman of today..just hire a cook and maid and enjoy life..but if I do marry will be 100% committed to her

[BigdaNawab]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@arabianights

I mean in a relationship she will be in love but you won’t so you won’t experience the joys of being in love but she will.

Its a lot fulfilling, ever lasting and easy joy to feel if its not a woman. So we are experiencing the joy, but not from the woman. Its usually, from art, work, hobby, friends, siblings.
You now know too much. “someone” needs to hire a assassin now.

[arabianights]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@BigdaNawab

Its a lot fulfilling, ever lasting and easy joy to feel if its not a woman. So we are experiencing the joy, but not from the woman. Its usually, from art, work, hobby, friends, siblings.
You now know too much. “someone” needs to hire a assassin now.

Hmm i can see where your coming from why not then the single life is nice lol but you could also enjoy both if you wanted to.

[BigdaNawab]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@arabianights

Hmm i can see where your coming from why not then the single life is nice lol but you could also enjoy both if you wanted to.

oh WE WANT TO. YOU DONT WANT US TO. Its like Nazi Germans running 5 star Armani gas chambers. im not stepping into it!!

[geminifromkhi]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

Oh trust me I’m loving single life..it has crossed my mind several times just being a bachelor and enjoying life..girls come and go..and I don’t know if can put up with their BS..I sometimes see no benefit for me to marry a woman of today..just hire a cook and maid and enjoy life

You love the single life but you are constantly worried about the moral degeneration of girls too:hmmm:

[arabianights]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@BigdaNawab

oh WE WANT TO. YOU DONT WANT US TO. Its like Nazi Germans running 5 star Armani gas chambers. im not stepping into it!!

I don’t mind it why would girls not want guys to enjoy both. Your confusing me

[pak2015]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@geminifromkhi

You love the single life but you are constantly worried about the moral degeneration of girls too:hmmm:

Yup that’s exactly why I see no benefit of marrying a woman of this and upcoming generations..I’d rather be a bachelor than settle

And I’m not doing anything morally wrong as a single guy..not hooking up with girls or using them nor do I seek their attention or validation..even said in previous thread I actively avoid unnecessary female interaction in person, just keep it professional

[arabianights]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

Yup that’s exactly why I see no benefit of marrying a woman of this and upcoming generations..I’d rather be a bachelor than settle

why not marry a woman of a different generation like a 70 year old

[BigdaNawab]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@arabianights

I don’t mind it why would girls not want guys to enjoy both. Your confusing me

you mind it. 5star armani NAzi gas chambers

[pak2015]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@arabianights

why not marry a woman of a different generation like a 70 year old

I would, would make a much better wife than of most girls today..but don’t want to get emotionally attached to her if she would be leaving me in a few years, life expectancy of women is in 70s..I’d miss her

[arabianights]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@BigdaNawab

you mind it. 5star armani NAzi gas chambers

I dont understand men :o

[geminifromkhi]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

Yup that’s exactly why I see no benefit of marrying a woman of this and upcoming generations..I’d rather be a bachelor than settle

And I’m not doing anything morally wrong as a single guy..not hooking up with girls or using them nor do I seek their attention or validation..even said in previous thread I actively avoid unnecessary female interaction in person, just keep it professional

Fair enough. I am not eager to rush into marriage either, even though I am 25 and live in Pakistan. Single life ftw

[arabianights]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@pak2015

I would, would make a much better wife than of most girls today..but don’t want to get emotionally attached to her if she would be leaving me in a few years, life expectancy of women is in 70s..I’d miss her

So you don’t want kids? If its only companionship then their are lots of options other than marriage but if you do its hard, unless its adoption.

[pak2015]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@arabianights

So you don’t want kids? If its only companionship then their are lots of options other than marriage but if you do its hard, unless its adoption.

I do want kids that’s the main problem..i want to spread my good genes..but no girl I’ve encountered in person has been worth the effort..the pakistani girlfriends I did have i fell for their looks which was a big mistake on my part because they were very self centered, had attention seeking behavior and wanted their way and didn’t want to compromise..and girls on gupshup have reinforced for me that they were completely normal girls because that’s how most girls are these days..it’s the new norm

[jeans]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

Ohh…ye relationship stuff…gets way to scary with your comments.. Huh???

[jeans]

Re: why do girls need constant validation?

@BigdaNawab

that masha-allah didnt make any sense. so im gong to RESPECTFULY IGNORE it.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha:rotfl: