Serious question..you girls get bombarded with compliments and attention constantly every single day from other girls, class fellows, co-workers, aunties, and even men (“i love your hair”, “i love your outfit today!”, “you look so good in that blouse!” "I love your shoes! “I love your purse” “you look really pretty today” "girl can i get your number?!).
do you girls think men get any sort of compliments on a daily, weekly or even monthly basis lol?? You really think a male friend would be like “yo dude your hair looks amazing today” even on the days I look realllllyy good..men don’t get any sort of compliments maybe once every eid ka chand but you don’t see men showing attention seeking behavior or feel the need to be validated constantly so I never understood why girls when they’re already receiving so much attention still continue to seek it out more and more..stop being so greedy
Ladies, please provide your perspective on why you think most girls feel the need to always seek out attention, be center of attention or crave validation from others. I’d love to understand this peculiar behavior better.
PS. please refrain from saying “you’re too obsessed with female behavior” like you girls do every time someone raises a question about females..I’m a single guy so obviously I’m going to be interested in learning more about female behavior, which most guys dont understand. This is your chance to do a public service for us men to teach us about your gender. I have no interest in learning about male behavior patterns becsuse I understand it already so it’s not meant to be offensive so girls please take a deep breath and exhale before and after reading my post.
Leads to a vicious cycle doesn’t it..girls put themselves out there to seek attention..leads to ogling by guys..girls get conditioned that hey this works and they put themselves out there even further..leads to more oogling lol
Also for the ladiea who are married..instead of always fishing out compliments..spontaneously compliment your husband about a physical feature that you like about them especially when they’re not dressed up or trying..just say it spontaneously..because although most men don’t go out of there way to seek out compliments it does mean a lot to them when their wife does spontaneously compliment them!
For starters, majority of us don’t ASK for compliments, if it comes, i enjoy it.
Maine maanaa ki kuchh nahi “Ghalib”
Muft haath aaye, to buraa kyaa hai
Secondly, dude i think it’s quite simple, men are from mars, women are from venus. We like what we like. I dont need to give a reason for it. I like chocolate and shrimps and pop corn and looking pretty. Aint nothing wrong with that.
Don’t worry. i’ll find you a wife that compliments you constantly, so much so you get annoyed… that’s my gift, to you. You’re welcome
I think alot of girls especially in this era that looks are very important and looking good will get you places in life. People including men are becoming less modest.
The reasons are; they like being complimented, they like attention, their in competition with other girls, they seek male attention.
recently we had someone saying that the world is in chaos because women try to be like men,
now we have someone saying why can’t women be more like men?
on a more serious note, just as not all men are content without the attention (since I know of some that are completely self-centered and focused on their superficial appearances), not all women are like this.
perhaps there is a time when they are younger and the need for validation exists, but eventually most grow out of this phase.
No no I never said women should be like men..just asking why they feel the need for validation..and was contrasting that with men who dont feel the need when they themselves are rarely getting complimented..I hope women never become like men lol
let me just tell you one thing son…
the ONLY thing you NEED to understand about women is : RESPECT HER, and IGNORE HER annoying things; finally, DONT LOVE A WOMAN, but never let her find that out.
I just saved you a hundred thousand years of research work on women.
But in the end the women will be giving and receiving love. The guy will only be giving and not receiving as he won’t trust her love. So in the end he’s investing and shes benefiting from it :p.
Have men become that cowardly lol women aren’t afraid of heart break but some how men can’t handle it?! Either way every human is going to get emotionally hurt even if its not heart break sometimes breaking of family ties is just as worse aren’t we supposed to love our family?
