why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

[sidz_angel]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@kazi

I wouldnt wanna know! lol seriously tho...thats too much of a surreal situation for me 2 even imagine! I don't mind her having "dated" and repented for it....but my idea of dating could be different from other peoples.... dating for what i see it is stuff like hanging out, chillining, going cinema etc.... but for others its all the physcial stuff included.....then i dont know what i would do!... But I think it's imperative to iron out these problems before hand, and thats why it is thoroughly recommended to find out as much as you can about your future partners!

good answer
well Kazi your future wife is gonna have an inquisition befre you agree i feel sorry for the poor thing

1 question... a girl being played and then dumped is sumthing u wudnt accept?

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@sidz_angel

good answer well Kazi your future wife is gonna have an inquisition befre you agree i feel sorry for the poor thing

1 question... a girl being played and then dumped is sumthing u wudnt accept?

Joking aside sidz, its not about inquistions or the like!...its just common sense if u ask me...this is someone who will be my partner for life and the hereafter....the co-parent of my children....a member of my family...its only right that I know the truth about them!

and as for the answer 2 ur question....
depends who the girl was! LOL....J-LO auntie can apply! lol
nah seriously tho, don't think i'd be cool with that!...just my personal preference!

[sidz_angel]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@kazi

Joking aside sidz, its not about inquistions or the like!...its just common sense if u ask me...this is someone who will be my partner for life and the hereafter....the co-parent of my children....a member of my family...its only right that I know the truth about them!

and as for the answer 2 ur question.... depends who the girl was! LOL....J-LO auntie can apply! lol nah seriously tho, don't think i'd be cool with that!...just my personal preference!

very tru
you got a good head on ur shoulders kazi for all ur joking around :)

yeah personal prefernces are a big thing in marriage, so good luck with it

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?

@sidz_angel

very tru
you got a good head on ur shoulders kazi for all ur joking around

yeah personal prefernces are a big thing in marriage, so good luck with it

JazakAllah khair…now enough of the serious talk u goofball!

[sidz_angel]

Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?

@kazi

JazakAllah khair…now enough of the serious talk u goofball!

i;m glad u can be serious sumtimes you’l make a good doc

you dufus

[me01]

Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?

dufus that word cracks me up

[sidz_angel]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

then crack up and get outta here dufus :p

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

dufus!!!
i know u got that from the subtitles in MunnaBhai MBBS....
whenever they said "mammoo"...it'd come up as dufus! i was like WTF!???

[sidz_angel]

Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?

no i didnt notice that in the mbbs copy i saw
but
every time is said mamu?

[Sparrow]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

Kazi my bro i totally understand what you are saying but what if you fall in love with a girl and she has everything you want in a woman but later she tells you that she's been out with someone way before.....would you break it off immediately? i know you probably would and i just don't think that's right!

p.s. i think you're really cool and this is all hypothetical x

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@Sparrow

Kazi my bro i totally understand what you are saying but what if you fall in love with a girl and she has everything you want in a woman but later she tells you that she's been out with someone way before.....would you break it off immediately? i know you probably would and i just don't think that's right!

p.s. i think you're really cool and this is all hypothetical x

The fact is that it would really depend on how well me and my wife/GF got on. Like Ive said before i'm not really into judging people...I have plenty of flaws in my ownself, never mind pointing out other people's flaws. And BTW I'm not here to stick up for men either...I think guys who go around sh**ging before marriage and want virgin brides, have alot to answer for! But the reality is that girls come out worse off....Imagine walking through town with your husband, whom u love so much, and then u bump into your ex-boyfriend.....You'd be embarassed right???......but the ex-BF would be thinking...."well mate, I was the first one 2 have your wife".....Its therefore imperative for boys and girls to save themselves from this fitna....moreso the girls, cos sadly the society that we today live in, means its worse for a girl to have dated than a guy!
peace out:)

[Sparrow]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

if i found out my future husband had dated some girls before....i don't think i would be too bothered and if we bumped in to her while shopping...it still wouldn't bother me....i guess we're just very different!

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@Sparrow

if i found out my future husband had dated some girls before....i don't think i would be too bothered and if we bumped in to her while shopping...it still wouldn't bother me....i guess we're just very different!

Agreed:that it all boils down 2 personal preferences. May Allah keep us happy with our future partners, Ameen.

[Sparrow]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@kazi

The fact is that it would really depend on how well me and my wife/GF got on. Like Ive said before i'm not really into judging people...I have plenty of flaws in my ownself, never mind pointing out other people's flaws. And BTW I'm not here to stick up for men either...I think guys who go around sh*ging before marriage and want virgin brides, have alot to answer for! But the reality is that girls come out worse off....Imagine walking through town with your husband, whom u love so much, and then u bump into your ex-boyfriend.....You'd be embarassed right???......but the ex-BF would be thinking...."well mate, I was the first one 2 have your wife".....*Its therefore imperative for boys and girls to save themselves from this fitna....moreso the girls, cos sadly the society that we today live in, means its worse for a girl to have dated than a guy! peace out:)

This seems to me that it's about male ego more than anything.....Anyway at the end of the day everyone has the right to be with who they want whether it is a girl who has dated or not...it's personal preference.

[Sparrow]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@kazi

Agreed:that it all boils down 2 personal preferences. May Allah keep us happy with our future partners, Ameen.

lol we both said "personal preference" at the same time! But i guess that's what it is at the end of the day!

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

not so much about ego...but more so about sharam-hayaah...
when a girl is born, her father is the guardian of her izzat...when she matures her brothers are the guardians of her izzat...when she marries, she becomes the izzat of her husband. The world that we today live in might be fast paced and forward thinking, but it's good to reflect on such morals and manners from yester-year.

[Sparrow]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

I totally agree on family/husband respect thing...... i'm not saying marry agirl who's been used as the local bike but what i was trying to say was that i personally don't think it's right to judge a girl purely on whether she has dated a guy before.

[kazi]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

@Sparrow

I totally agree on family/husband respect thing...... i'm not saying marry agirl who's been used as the local bike but what i was trying to say was that i personally don't think it's right to judge a girl purely on whether she has dated a guy before.

^^ conversely one can take the view, that a person shouldnt put themselves into a position where they fear being judged by someone else!

[Precious_Khan]

Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?

jaldi say koi faisla karkay batao …mujhay date maarni hay

[Wran_Alak]

Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?

bcoz they want to prove that they are first hand