Re: why do girls act like they've never dated when they really have?
One of my friends MR X got married last year..... he was so in love with the girl and she loved him too...they were perfect for each other. My friend Mr X had dated lots of girls in his time....then one day his wife mentioned that she use to date a guy at college.....MR X was sooo angry coz she had brought shame on him and said that he now didn't feel the same about her. So the next day the jumped in front of a train...it's true it happend in barking station about 6months ago. In her note she said she loved him too much so she did it so that his izzat wouldn't be harmed.
Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?
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hey everyone i read it all. bottom line if either a man or woman likes to fcuk
around plz dont brag about it and hurt the izzat or ego or
pride or dignity of the woman n man. Then pretend oh i was a victim they all used me. I am as pure as you can get. Frankly
no man or woman will accept in their right man that he was a playboy and she was a playgirl. why..
Coz once you become one no matter what you will never stop
being one like the Lions - Man eaters never cease to be one.
Date or go out have fun but when you choose to be with some one it is very
important that you appear pure n honest and trustworthy.
For others they must look into her past if they really want a pure bride coz ..
later discoveries will only coz seperation or grief..
my past is my business … her past is her business. as long as she loves me
and i love her end of story… Keeping secrets is a risk i dont mind taking but
some people cannot keep secrets even about their purity n virginity. So they
lie only to be proved wrong later … No one likes liers so better keep a lid on
your past and plan a future without bringing old sad stories to life. General
talk is ok but some girls and guys wana brag n go into step by step details
of how where when how long how cexi and how they were victimised ..
Re: why do girls act like they’ve never dated when they really have?
Thats patheitc, that ain’t love, that’s a pure ego right there..you loved someone, you wouldn’t let some past mistake “change” your love for her, you’d let them go..do that if you want, but DO NOT call it love! That’s like an emotional honour killing..where instead of directly slitting her throat or killing her, she’s guilted into committing suicide. I understand the whole fatehrs/brothers/husbands being protectors, but what happens when that izzat is “violated”? In Pak [n other “Muslim” countries] if a girl is raped, she commits suicide or is killed for bringing shame on the family…the majority of honour killings that take place outside of those countries comes from the UK, very rarely you hear abt em in the USA.
Anyway, back to my original point, if you truly LOVE someone, you’ll accept everything in them.. wats past is past..its a total package, not just a freakin cookie that u ask the baker to make for you..i’ve never dated, but I did like one of my friends frm college for a long time. And he [fiance ] knew about it from the beginning and he had no problems wiht it; i wasn’t any worse or shameful of a person in his eyes, and it didnt’ affect his wanting me..I know abt his past and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest bit.
] knew about it from the beginning and he had no problems wiht it; i wasn’t any worse or shameful of a person in his eyes, and it didnt’ affect his wanting me..I know abt his past and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest bit.