P.s ever been in the situation where you the GUEST are on time and the host is running late or even isn't home. Now THAT is awkward. We are a family who do everything on time, so we end up getting to weddings when the hall is still empty and there is no one there to greet us. If the wedding card says 12pm, we will be there at 11.59am.
Thats what's wrong with desis!