Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?

[Sehrysh]

@Infertile

Desi women har waqt net pe bethi rehtein hain ya aurton se burayi kerne bethi rehtein hain.

Can desi women do something other than backbiting? Ya dosro mai keeray nikalne ke ilawa bhi kuch kaam waam ata hai ya nahi?

they should do sthg productive like join the gym n loose weight or educate thrmselves, get a job or sthg.

One word describes desi women best, MEOW. Kuttay billiyon ki tarah logon se larne lagti hai. Par kyon?

How can a married woman spend so much time online? Especially if they have kids? Bacho ki dekh baal nahi karni? Aurtoon ko sirf ek kaam ata hai, and that is talk bad about others. That’s it.

To back up a step - no one has a problem with your reminding us that gheebat is a gunnah. No one will deny it and unfortunately, despite our best efforts, most of us partake in it on occasion. We can and should seek to improve ourselves and our aamal. But, reading your comment above - you make it sound as if:

1. Desi women sit on the internet all the time
2. Desi women do nothing but backbite
3. Married women are not productive since they spend all of their time online - they are neglecting their children
4. They only say negative things about others

These are insulting generalizations that desi women will take offense to.

Be careful what you say if and how you say it.