Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?

Oh love if only i can tell you the real faces of the some of the women on here. They are so two faced. From the outside they seem nice but only when something happens do their true colours show. Anyway this was and has nothing to do with the forums. I am just talking about desi women wasting their time in general. Especially those that are married. Backbiting and gossiping comes under the wasting time.