OMG, I have really seen that happening, I was in Pakistan and this guy started crying when everyone was laughing and enjoying on the stage 
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guys crying on their weddings is totally understandable.
after 20 odd years of eating real food, now one has to live with a women who cant even make a circular roti...
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^oh please!
Haha I would like to see a guy cry on his wedding. No one cried at my wedding!! My mom had tears in her eyes when my husband was signing the nikkah!! Not when I was signing it. Even tjose tears i tell her were fake and she only did it for the camera. :) And everyone was all smiley during the rukhsati!!! Why didn't anyone cry?!?
I feel left out...
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I would cry and I know I will…even though Im only moving 20 minutes away.
I think its a feeling more then anything else…only some girls would understand what I mean. You’re no longer a carefree single girl anymore who gets to do whatever she wants, no more familiarities, no more nakhrey, parents’ unconditional love that allows you to get away with murder, pick up and just go see your friends whenever you feel like it, spend your money however you wish, etc.
There are so many changes headed your way and the biggest fear is living a life without your parents. At least for me it is…leaving behind my precious single days that I thoroughly enjoyed and my home.
Now I feel like crying…see what you all did…
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I cried on my wedding and it had nothing to do with being married or going away.
Just seeing my dad all emotional and the way he came over and was the first to say his goodbyes, that was very hard.. I think seeing my dad, someone ive always looked up to (and will always in the future as well), seeing him all teary, made me very upset too.
We're not babies. Men cry too, and we think they are more of a man that way.
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Tears of joy!
Larki Roye Ek Baar, Larka Roye Baar Baar.
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^ Yeah! It takes a REAL MAN to cry.........and wear PINK! Okay.....well maybe not the pink part. LOL!
On a more serious note...there's nothing wrong with a guy crying.
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^ hehe.. i wish to see the hubz in pink but i dont think i ever will
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I know I'm going to be crying my eyes out, and even thinking about my rukhsati makes me emotional.
That's not because I'm a cry baby, or weak willed - I'm neither.
Its because I've been through a lot with my family, they've supported me, and vice versa, it's hard leaving that unconditional love behind. It's hard leaving my mum behind who no matter how ill she is, will always put me first, my dad who's looked after me, and will run to the pharmacy to get medicine for me at 3am, without a word of complaint, my brother who I've stayed up many nights with chatting and goofing around with.
Its' hard to leave a life that familiar, and to leave all your families rituals, that unconditional love and caring.
I know I'm going to be crying my eyes out, and even thinking about my rukhsati makes me emotional.
That's not because I'm a cry baby, or weak willed - I'm neither.
Its because I've been through a lot with my family, they've supported me, and vice versa, it's hard leaving that unconditional love behind. It's hard leaving my mum behind who no matter how ill she is, will always put me first, my dad who's looked after me, and will run to the pharmacy to get medicine for me at 3am, without a word of complaint, my brother who I've stayed up many nights with chatting and goofing around with.
Its' hard to leave a life that familiar, and to leave all your families rituals, that unconditional love and caring.
ok you made me cry too.
but listen girl... no matter how good it was all you have to move on in life...
you see - if you "leaving" them part does not happen - meaning your "marriage" - then they would be all worried any ways. So actually you are doing them a favor by making things work t the right time.
So be proud. Move on. After marriage you can still be in touch with them. SO no biggie.
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Because a girl is about to take the biggest step of her life, move out of her family home where shes spent the last 20 or however many years of her life. Knowing that tomorrow when she wakes up and goes downstairs, mummy and daddy arent gonna be there to greet her, that when shes upset her brother isnt gonna come into her room, pass wind, giggle and then run away to cheer her up, or that when she gets home and has a ridiculously crazy craving for something silly her mums not gonna be there to make it...i could go onnnn and onnn and onnn lol its such a scary thing to go through, and that is when it all begins. I get that some people dont wanna cry but i am going to be drowning in my own tears for sure, even thinking about it now (and im not even engaged) makes me want to cry. When someone even mentions me getting married and leaving, i wanna break down into tears. Depends how close you are to your family and how much you depend on them, and i do a lot. My family are my life, everything ive done, have, achieved is down to them, so knowing youre leaving that life behind? Scares the poop outta me. But inshallah, one prays that every bride that leaves her home, enteres into a life full of even more love, into a family who will give her more than she could ever imagine. Psssht got myself all depressed thinking about this now! haha :)
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I reckon I will cry bucketfuls when the reality kicks in. I don’t know if this will be at the actual wedding or afterwards.
Leaving my parents behind will be the hardest thing for me. I love winding them up on a daily basis; having a laugh and a joke with them. Having breakfast with my parents in the morning. Debating with my dad. Discussing things with mum over a cup of tea. Having makeovers with my sister. Telling my brothers to stop fighting. Experimenting in the kitchen and my dad still willingly eating it and appreciating the efforts I went to (I don’t reckon any other man could do this, out of his own good)…ah man. So many little things which we take for granted on a daily basis. 
My hubby better be prepared:bummer:
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ajj kaal ki brides to nahi roti 
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^^ normally because theyve paid hundreds of pounds to get their make up done.
roona nahi chayay, roolanay keh liyay tayari rakhni chayay!
