Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???

goldfish has 0.5 sec memory, as Muslims, we should learn to forgive and forget quickly, not hold grudges, let things pass


lifes too short man, between worshiping Allah and having fun, do we really have time for:


'his goat pissed on my yard, so i'm not talking to him for 20 years'


hence goldfish memory is important


:)

But men aren't goldfishes, I wish they were! They remember things..and at some point in time always bring it back up!

Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???

I think its women, who NEVER EVER forget any thing.
Even IF man say sorry like half a million times.

^ Remain single buddy!

What you are saying is true! 100% true! I still know some people who lie to their wives about having gfs. This is really pathetic. I know one guy, Hes from Pak (sadly). He got married last yr and his wife is still back home. He lives here in London and every other night he goes outside and atleast finds one prostitute and hes got soooo many gf, countless! This is really pathetic, i told him many times to stop all this but he doesnt listen. I once asked him what will happen if your wife finds out all this? And he said "Koi baat nahi, biwi ko sirf khaane (food) & kapdee (clothes) sai matlab hona chahiye".

This guy is such a retard, he just doesnt listen to anyone, hes not even scared of Allah (astaghfirulla).

This is just one story i know of, and i know there are worse cases than this. And to say the least some girls are same infact some even worse. Tauba Tauba

AllahmDullilah i am not like these morons and May Allah guide all these people to right path and InshAllah i will never ever lie to wife about my past (which i dont have any yet & InshAllah wont have it in future either)

Wrong! Its men (in most cases) who never forget anything!

Men are confused individuals..till they find prettier, slimmer..fairer, with longer hair..taller they'll keep on playing!

True but i have across some morons who just a new girl every single day! No matter how she looks, fat, slimmer etc they just want her! Really Disgusting!

Actually, this has a basis in biological makeup! Males respond to visual stimulation while females respond to emotional stimulation (ie., tender feelings, thoughts, sayings)

As the book says "men are from Mars, women are from Venus"

so you are saying that if someone is truly in love they will not think anyone else is attractive?
or especially when women put guys in teh situation where they ask, oh do u think such and such is pretty :)

lets be a little real, I love my wife, she rocks and is the coolest person I know, but that does not stop me from thinking that angelina jolie is hot :D

lol

off course Mrs. don't know that you are member of GS.

You Martian you!! For SHAME!! :D

of course she does, she is a member here, and posts off and on.

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You are a brave man.

so z asks me who is on my 'list'
remember that friends episode..."the" list
she says I know angelina jolie, who else
I said errr angelina jolie multiple times
that earned me a smack :(

Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???

Its actually a complement to the Mrs X2....AJ IS undeniably "hot" as you phrase it lol....shows good taste!

Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???

I think this thread should be merged with the one "why girls lie" because the reasons should be the same as the issue is one and the same. If you agree that dating is wrong, then it is wrong for both men and women. If you agree that premarital sex is wrong, then it is wrong for both men and women. If you agree that lying to deliberately deceive your spouse is wrong, then it is wrong for both men and women. There are no double standards in Islam, regardless of what may occur in our cultures

Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???

reasons are not the same, the impact is not the same, we do have different standards for women then men, its not right, but its true.

Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???

Because women make such a big deal about it.

Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Arjun Rampal, Ali Zafar...sigh