Many boys ive seen who have/had have serious/just fun relationships with girls say they'll lie to their future wives about ever having girlfriends i.e. when they take rishtas for girls...
i don't get it why?
What you are saying is true! 100% true! I still know some people who lie to their wives about having gfs. This is really pathetic. I know one guy, Hes from Pak (sadly). He got married last yr and his wife is still back home. He lives here in London and every other night he goes outside and atleast finds one prostitute and hes got soooo many gf, countless! This is really pathetic, i told him many times to stop all this but he doesnt listen. I once asked him what will happen if your wife finds out all this? And he said "Koi baat nahi, biwi ko sirf khaane (food) & kapdee (clothes) sai matlab hona chahiye".
This guy is such a retard, he just doesnt listen to anyone, hes not even scared of Allah (astaghfirulla).
This is just one story i know of, and i know there are worse cases than this. And to say the least some girls are same infact some even worse. Tauba Tauba
AllahmDullilah i am not like these morons and May Allah guide all these people to right path and InshAllah i will never ever lie to wife about my past (which i dont have any yet & InshAllah wont have it in future either)
Men are confused individuals..till they find prettier, slimmer..fairer, with longer hair..taller they'll keep on playing!
True but i have across some morons who just a new girl every single day! No matter how she looks, fat, slimmer etc they just want her! Really Disgusting!
True but i have across some morons who just a new girl every single day! No matter how she looks, fat, slimmer etc they just want her! Really Disgusting!
Actually, this has a basis in biological makeup! Males respond to visual stimulation while females respond to emotional stimulation (ie., tender feelings, thoughts, sayings)
As the book says "men are from Mars, women are from Venus"
But surely if your married to someone, she is your 'the one' she isyour world, she is your everything, someone you love the most, someone you truly find the prettiest, the most beautifulest person in the whole world, someone who you'd be in love with forever, someone who you'll be with in jannah...
so, how cud such a person look or even think about anyone else????????
A few days ago I commented on someones facbook note, and here's what my conception of marriage is, hence where wud the lying be:
so you are saying that if someone is truly in love they will not think anyone else is attractive?
or especially when women put guys in teh situation where they ask, oh do u think such and such is pretty :)
lets be a little real, I love my wife, she rocks and is the coolest person I know, but that does not stop me from thinking that angelina jolie is hot :D
lets be a little real, I love my wife, she rocks and is the coolest person I know, but that does not stop me from thinking that angelina jolie is hot :D
lol
off course Mrs. don't know that you are member of GS.
lets be a little real, I love my wife, she rocks and is the coolest person I know, but that does not stop me from thinking that angelina jolie is hot :D
so z asks me who is on my 'list'
remember that friends episode..."the" list
she says I know angelina jolie, who else
I said errr angelina jolie multiple times
that earned me a smack :(
Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???
I think this thread should be merged with the one "why girls lie" because the reasons should be the same as the issue is one and the same. If you agree that dating is wrong, then it is wrong for both men and women. If you agree that premarital sex is wrong, then it is wrong for both men and women. If you agree that lying to deliberately deceive your spouse is wrong, then it is wrong for both men and women. There are no double standards in Islam, regardless of what may occur in our cultures