Re: Why do boys lie about having had girlfriends???
P2 is right,
in my view past does two things, it shows a person's judgement
1) so what was it that the person did..very important
i mean if some chica was trying to find someone, and met ppl, got involved and it did not work out to me that is a diff thing than someone who is promiscous
2) and how recent was it, if someone was sleeping arounf until last week and is now all over it, well..it remains to be seen
3) when did this take place- so if it was dodgy stuff and it was when someone was 19-20, thats diff then if it took place when someone is 27-28.
in the end, aside from comfort leel with that, it comes down to, would having a past mean they will also have a 'present' and a 'future' because that is more important.