Why did he do this? (A question for men)

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Re: Why did he do this?

@redvelvet

You have made the above comment twice. If someone has to show off/brag about being Allah-fearing…then are they really that God-fearing and that great of a Muslim? I see it more as a negation. Something to consider. I think that a person who sincerely fears Allah would be more humble.

@redvelvet

What should she do? Call up his house and ask his parents , “Aap k betay ne aap se meray baaray main baat ki ya nahin?” Climb a tree with a pair of binoculars and see into his house?

There isn’t a way you can make “sure” about this. You will KNOW if he’s genuine when his parents call your house. In other words, if his actions match up his words…then he’s sincere and can be trusted.

You keep mentioning that he “said” he was God-fearing…that he “said” he promised you so n so…that he “said” he wants this and that. But his actions didn’t match up and they spoke the loudest. That’s why they say, “Talk is cheap.” If there is anything you should learn from this experience it’s to pay more attention to what the guy does than to what he says and see if there’s a consistency between the two. I think we all need to remind ourselves of that from time to time…cuz it is easy to forget.

Hmmmm.. You’re right! Love the way you write!