Re: Why Desi's prefer son over daughter
yes true we should respect our elders no matter what, but if they start meddling in other ppl business (which is very common in us desis probably due to the fact that most of the women have no life other than their maika or susral...they dont work or socialize much and are not in contact with different types of ppl who can maybe enlighten them) ....
any how to get back to my point, just dont let anyone meddle in your family affairs....and if a pophi or khala does, than tell them politely ...you have your own family dont you have enough problems of your own rather than to be concerned with ours...hopefully they will get the hints.