put a show of acting nice, lovey dovey, caring and all?
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do you literally mean blondes?
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Huh? What the? Come again? The thread makes little sense.
Are you saying that girls put a "show" of acting nice and lovey dovey during rishta process? What if some of them are truly considerate?
Would this mean that girls who are not blatantly nice and caring are brunettes?
And since we're on the subject of hair color, how come there isn't a label for people with black hair. You have your blonds, and your brunettes, and your red heads. What about those with black locks? Blackettes?
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^no i mean dumb girls.
usually ma-bhen of the guy go to the perspective house and they see the girl and her adaptability and adjustments.
they put a show of all acting, even though they have zero interest in the guy family. all they wana make is a daid-eent ki masjid
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Well, it would be rude to just kick the guy out of your house even if you don't have an interest in him and his family. You can't determine what a guy and his family are like just based on a picture or verbal reference. Sometimes you meet someone, and you don't feel any spark or chemistry. But it's still better to mind your manners. Ghar se phaink diya to larkay walay poori society main larki ki badnami karain gay k "Hai larki bari badtameez hai."
Better to be polite (maybe not over-the-top polite) and then gently refuse the rishta. Baat khatam.
I just googled the my hair query. And black-haired people are referred to as "raven-haired." In case anyone else was also curious. :p That sounds kind of pretty.
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this thread is really confusing..desi girls don't even have blonde hair.
I beg to differ 
A good majority of desi girls have blond hair. Courtesy of highlights or streaking.
And if that shocks you, a good majority of desi girls also have blue, green, and gray eyes. Courtesy of contact lens. 
Us natural ones with raven hair and raven eyes are a rarity 
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Okay magic 9 ball, great reply! Good laugh!
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Its not only about one or two , they alllllll are like that . Trying to prove that they are the best , from best family , best attitude , best morals , best education and prettiest and blah blah . But in real , its totally different . Bechara guy thinks that oh she is really a nice person and when real self comes out . . . he closes his eyes and runs away .
Its not only about one or two , they alllllll are like that . Trying to prove that they are the best , from best family , best attitude , best morals , best education and prettiest and blah blah . But in real , its totally different . Bechara guy thinks that oh she is really a nice person and when real self comes out . . . he closes his eyes and run away .
^ Kya hua Maani Bhai? Kisi ne inkaar kar diya?
^ Kya hua Maani Bhai? Kisi ne inkaar kar diya?
Nahi behan jee but saach likh raha tha :@:
Nahi behan jee but saach likh raha tha :@:
C'mon not ALL girls are like that. Akhir kuch to hon gi jin se door nahin...balke peechay bhaga jaata hai. It's not a poora poora sach. Jhoot bolna paap hota hai!
blonde hair on desi girls looks terrible!
C'mon not ALL girls are like that. Akhir kuch to hon gi jin se door nahin...balke peechay bhaga jaata hai. It's not a poora poora sach. Jhoot bolna paap hota hai!
Bahi jaan only magician like yourself can produce such a perfect woman , but reality is far from our dreams . First of all no one is perfect , so if someone is trying to convince you on that, then its a total crap . Secondly showing off is part of this whole rishta game . You really have to think hard to come up with an example when someone acted modest .
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numi is right wateve he is saying
:hinna: baas ya kuch aur b kehna hai muje ?
blonde hair on desi girls looks terrible!
Ditto!
Sometimes, when you mess too much with what Allah has given you, it backfires big time. And dry frizzy unnatural looking blond locks against a tan complexion doesn't look nice. It doesn't look all that natural on the fairer desi girls either.
Fresh highlights look cute. But, over time, the roots start showing, and it just all looks like a dry non-cohesive mess!
“Bahi jaan?” “Our” ??? Our kya??? I ain’t on your team!
I’m a behan, not a bhai
Bacha next time practice ker ka ana
Dushman party 
haan tu ma kia keh raha tha . . . yea so women are just drama queens and attention seekers .
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haan haan nomi is always right !
ooo nomi aur kia kehna hai 
. . . good for now till next khaabi side . Thanks :k: