The moment he(damad) becomes member of your family, every “nakhra” (demand, legal or illegal)of him is usually tolerated!!!
On the other hand girls, even if ask some legitimate thing, parents usually advice her not to do so in her in-laws family.
is’nt it hypocrysy??
Not in this age
His age of nuclear family …apartment living in down town metropolis of high rise ,two ppl. working ,there is no inlaws for either of them around…
In the past …also womenwould remain decked inher jewelleries ,shahana dress,mehndi ,for weeks served in room on bed while husband wnt back to worl sometime to different cities or even diffeent countries.
LIfe is not the same for all ,all the time ,i guess
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Shirin: no self pity PLZzzzzz.
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Bik Gaya Jo Woh Kharidar Nahi Ho Sakta
looks like most of the married ones on this forum R spoiled damads!!
yes it is crazy, these nakhras and obliging them in every way. why cannot we be equals, girls are expected to be friendly and accommodating all the time. guys dont even appreciate that, and then expect to be nakhriloo and be respected, liked etc
2 faced society
yes it is crazy, these nakhras and obliging them in every way. why cannot we be equals, girls are expected to be friendly and accommodating all the time. guys dont even appreciate that, and then expect to be nakhriloo and be respected, liked etc
Samina hasnain , Saima Hasnain
Men bear all the nakhra in courtship thats why
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In the society where this happens men are expected to be the provider too!
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Men have bigger ego & women knock it every chance she gets :tear2:
Why fight like this Men & women are equal but Different …certain things are easy for men & certain things are made easy for women.Right now i hope you know those things well enough to agree with me .
Cant wait to be someone's Damad..Sounds like fun?
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Cant wait toi be someoen Damad..Sounds like fun?
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Ditto, mate!
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Ditto, mate!**
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Ok.Any Prospective SASUR or BRIDE for me and sambrialian.
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Ok.Any Prospective SASUR or BRIDE for me and sambrialian.
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??????
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** Ok.Any Prospective SASUR or BRIDE for me and sambrialian.**
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Yaar AQ, there is a significant difference between a Susar and a bride. Please don't lump them together because you are scaring me.
well I meant if there is any prospective sasur here who islooking for Damad or if there is any bride looking for groom ,then they can contact US
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See Objective is to be a DAMAD
I think we should post our respective marital resumes here just to speed up the process!
Agreed…
No one is taking notice.. !!!
Lets do something man..
U start first an I will follow !!!
ok, bro, I'll get working on it. Can you post some examples that I can plagiarize off?
here is one example
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Salam,
Apun Pakia!!! Umar 30 saal, wajan 80 killo aur 6 phoot
height kya! Abhi woh bole to kiya hai na apun ko bhi
life me settle hone ka maangta , isi liye yeah
advertisement apun paper me chaap re la hai...
Maanta hai apun Tapori hai bahut log ka pungi bajayela
hai magar kya hai naa apun ka bhi ijjat hai baap
markit me!!! apun ko bhi public shaadi bia me bolati
hai who bhi ijjat se!
Saaal ka 5/6 peti to apun aaram
se kama leta hai...
Ab chokiri apun ko aisi chahiye, bole to aik dam jhakas,aik dam patakha... thoda padi likhi hogi to chale ga kion ke kabhi kabhi form bharne
ke liye apun ko 25 log ka haat pair jodna padta
hai..
Apun jo hai na shaadi ki baad aik dam sudhar jaayinga,
iman se... apun ka baccha log ko pada likah tapori
banayinga... bole to Tapori Doctor, Tapori computer
waala aur bohat kuch...
Maa kasam shadi ke baad apun
aik bhi chikni ko line nahi dega re...
Dekho baap apun shadi ke baad me koi chokri ki phamily
ka lafda nahi chahiye han bole to kabab me haddi nahi
baane ka kya!
Abhi yeah sub accha lage to apun
ko contact karne ka, kya ?
Munna Mobile
Pappu Pager Ka Right Hand
ShanPati Nagar,Gali No. 420
Pareshan Raod, Bhai Ka Area
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I dont think, that it is respectful for a man to be a ghar damad, and live and depend on the wife family..
moreover. if you just notice the polulation diffrent, 1/3 population is male, and 2/3 population is female. In socities like pakistan, good grooms are rare to found..
and most guys from good families, dosnt accept to be ghar damad at all.
most of the ghardamads are wicket and selfish ppl, who can blackmale the family of bride as well the bride…
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Khush naseeb insaan woh hai jo apne naseeb per khush rahay.
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why is he obliged so much? cuz of the social tabboo around divorce, divorced women etc.
Essentially people believe that if they keep their son in law happy, he in turn will keep their daughter happy. Now to some extent it is true, but then u always have those idiots who all of a sudden get on a big power trip.
In the cases of such people my prescription is ze following.
you get ze big bag
you get ze spoilt damad
you get seven cats
you out ze man and ze cats in ze bag
you seal ze bag
you beat ze bag and beat ze bag, and let it sit for ze hour.
you repeat ze procedure as needed.
A.Q.,Sambri.Fraudia…
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Achi Wife /Woman/Lady/Larki aise Aasani se nahi milte AAj kal ke din maine.
More than 1?2 the population at any given time is unmarried & looking for life partner or Bride .
Remember millions of Divorced men every two years back got married 50% of them are back to Single .Not easy to find nor easy to KEEP .
And you know all that pampering done for son in law is like Qurbani ka Baqra …we all know whats going to happen top it soon enough …bechare ko kuch din aaram se khila ke rakho .
If i were to advice you start being gentelman,for there is no better or more sure way to find some to agree to marry you .
Thats how my husband could get my consent
Mausam Ke Tarah Tum Bhi Badal tou Naa Jao Ge
You are rejected !!!
men dont liek women who giev so much lecture.
lol
Just kidding !!!